Psychology - December 2007

I play the sax and i get soooo nervous right before a solo, or even just playing. i shake, look away from music, hit wrong notes, or mess up on solo! how do i calm myself during a nervous wreck in the middle of a song, or even before one?

2007-12-05 16:39:25 · 2 answers · asked by _-ЯÆ-_ 4

Me and my exboyfriend were together for 4 months. We were each others first loves. My ex boyfriend who broke up with me almost a year ago will not speak to me, of me, or look at me. He basicly pretends that I do not exsist. He broke up with me over the computer. He also has told me over the computer that he no longer loves me. He told me the reason we cannot be friends is because I told him after we broke up that he never loved me. I then apoligized and have apoligized again since then. He continues to act as if I don't exsist. We have the same friends and I see him often but he will not talk to me or look in my direction. Why does he act this way?

2007-12-05 16:10:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why or why not? Do you think there are any other factors that influence results?

I'm writing an essay on IQ tests and I'd like to get opinions from others.

2007-12-05 15:40:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently had a dream that was different. It started out at this place I used to live, there was some guy in an SUV that pulls up and he is shooting at someone I know so I go to his window and kill him by shooting him in the head i dont get this. Then later I talk to one of my friends and tell her what happened and eventually I hug her and she starts kissing me on my neck and lips and I go with it and do the same to her. What does all this mean?

2007-12-05 15:39:53 · 3 answers · asked by Poster 2

Some people are cut out for the pressure of college and some aren't. If people are taught to appreciate what they have why do they have to try and do what others are just because it might improve the quality of your life. You can get to a good place in life without college right?

2007-12-05 15:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me, it has always been personality. I grew up learning that you can be the most gorgeous person in the world but if you are snobby and conceited and rude then it makes you an ugly person. Just curious as to what other people think on this issue. We have a society that is so hung up on looks and often won't give someone a second look if they find something "wrong" with that person when that flaw is what makes that person unique and sets them apart from others. I won a pageant a few weeks back and learned that there are two different organizations. The Miss USA organization which is based more on looks and the Miss America Organization which is based on personality and what you acheive and gives scholarships - I always wanted to be in pageants and thought it was wonderful to be in one that wasn't based so much on outside beauty but inside. I think we all should look at inside beauty more... what about you?

2007-12-05 15:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Jey Renay♥ 2

2007-12-05 15:04:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it sounds horrible, but I just thought it was an interesting question. I am of course not encouraging murder!!!!

2007-12-05 15:04:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 15:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by rhtzzn 2

2007-12-05 14:50:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can we relate so deeply with them?

2007-12-05 14:44:44 · 14 answers · asked by B 3

i have lost my spirit. i dont have that 'sparkle' to do everything, even things i use to love or like so much. i fine myself really crazy, weirdo! -_-ll can someone please help me? tell me what to do now... i am really losing my life. =( sob.

2007-12-05 14:44:42 · 18 answers · asked by WannaFlyFree 1

Looking back on our life,even as young as teens
now look.,we wish we haden't said thing we did to
change the course of our life of tomorow.

MERRY CHRISTMAS,

2007-12-05 14:30:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 14:25:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 13:57:59 · 7 answers · asked by wildhorsesrunfree 2

He seems to honestly think that the current trend in standards for what is normal for a young woman's body that allows for neither hips nor breasts nor any pubic hair at all is in fact a form of pervervision because it says that it's OK to find what looks like a preadolescent girl's body to be sexually desireable .

Is my friend really crazy or just really smart ?

I say the trend is swinging the other way, hence apple bottom jeans?

2007-12-05 13:57:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I procrastinate and I tend to avoid the attendance of problems and issues that need to be addressed.
What is the cure for this disorder? Got any quotes or something?

2007-12-05 13:47:27 · 4 answers · asked by Fish Stick Jesus 2

I should be happy. I have a girlfriend, do well in school, and my family cares about me. My life is just horrible. I'm so negative about myself and I do not like anything about me. I don't believe in myself and I get so paranoid that my girlfriend doesn't like me anymore and I get insecure when she mentions her ex boyfriends and I absolutely hate my life. I don't know what to do. I'm too scared too talk to a councelour in person. I don't know what to do. I don't even want to be alive right now.

2007-12-05 13:35:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

what colours would you use ?

2007-12-05 13:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

I'm a procrastinator, how do i fix this? It's almost 5:00 here, 3 projects are due tomorrow, I've hardly started any. I always procrastinate, but I usually get an A anyway, but I'm tired of staying up late and sleeping in class the next day. Should I stop procrastinating or just keep doing what I do. If so how do i fix it?

2007-12-05 13:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 13:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you get any ? and if you do what things do you do ?

2007-12-05 13:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

It's only December and I'm so sick and tired of school already. I'm sick of having 5 subs of hw everyday, not understanding chem, sick of english AND the teacher, of being tired, of cysts, of stupid people at school, sick of the same old ritual everyday!!

And because of the "not caring" I got a C- in english, but I've been actually turning in my hw so it probably went up. But in chem i barely understand anything, so I have a C-. I'm generally an A-B student.

I'm usually always happy, even though I may not show it, but with all this going on, I'm so sick of everything that I just feel like not doing anything, as in not doing any homework anymore, not caring anymore.

I do do all of my hw, but lately its just asldkjoawiegna, words can't explain it. FRUSTRATION!!! LOTS!!! I'm already very low on motivation with school because I'm so burned out. I just want to scream!!!

How can I overcome all of this?

I'm not one to go to an adult for help unless I'm desperate.

2007-12-05 13:01:10 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6

i get so scared. i can't even go. i do, of course, if i have a serious problem, though. i never do because i stay so careful. i want to cry and throw up just at the thought of it. i also hate them seeing me naked. that bothers me a lot. is there anything i can do? please don't go hating on me. it's not my fault. this is a serious question no rude answers. thanks, for anyone who sincerely answered!

2007-12-05 12:50:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 12:45:47 · 8 answers · asked by Bertha M 1

the case fell before it went to court. still, i do not feel like to give up. friends are asking me what I expect. True that i do not know what I want exactly, justice I guess. He chipped my self esteem and affected my life so much.

I am not sure what exactly I want. It hurts everytime when people ask me why I did not leave earlier or could not understand my reaction to what he did. I wanted them to understand even that might did not help to anything.

my friends are supportive, but they do think that i should forget about the whole thing now.

2007-12-05 12:26:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mania: bipolar girl sees guy she likes talking to another girl but really doesnt give a **** and goes over to talk everyone.

Depression: bipolar girl sees guy she likes talking to another girl, she gets a panic attack, and runs away crying. She may go home

and overdose, self-harm or binge on food alcohol, feeling suicidal - there is nothing left to live for.

In a few minutes, she feels completely fine again.

2007-12-05 12:19:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been seeing her for twice a week since march, so im very close with her, but idk if as a patient it would be kinda weird for me to give her a card

2007-12-05 12:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by justine 2

or would you make the same mistakes again , because this is how its meant to be ?

2007-12-05 12:13:20 · 17 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

2007-12-05 12:10:26 · 7 answers · asked by chooti patakha:p 1