My wonderful fiance works extremely hard, in addition to helping our friends and neighbors with various problems. He is a giving wonderful human being with a great sense of humor and a staggering intellect. Everyone adores him, as do I. The problem, and what no one else sees, is that he is constantly angry and down in the dumps. He lets small inconveniences ruin his day and blows things way out of proportion. Example: he threw a fit last week because it was raining on a day that we had planned to BBQ with the neighbors. "Why does this sh!t always happen to me!!?" He screamed. Now, our life is pretty darn good in comparison to others, but I don't want to belittle his feelings or make him feel like he doesn't have a right to feel stressed out. But all the screaming and bitterness are really getting to me. I'm concerned about having children with a man who can't seem to find any joy in life. How can I help him appreciate life? Any serious advice would be appreciated.
2006-08-25
05:59:56
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HoneyGirl
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