There's this guys that I like. He and I have been friends for about 7 years. Last summer he told me he was leaving his wife. He seemed interested in dating me. I told him I was interested. However, I waited until his divorce was final, this past Feb. Now he's become all wishy washy on me. One minute he's talking about sex and being interested. The next he's avoiding it. It makes things so uncomfortable for the both of us. I can deal with a friendship, with benefits. So that's not a problem. If I leave him alone for a length if time he then starts all over again. Sometimes he claims not to want to ruin our friendship. And that he respects me too much. Then he's back to talking all naughty with me. The he'e back to making all sorts of excuses. I'm lost and confused. I have tried to talk to him about this, but he tries hard to avoid it most of the time. He did admit to me last week that he's too flip floppy. So, what do any of you think is his problem?
2006-12-17
12:16:20
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Jimmy J
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Psychology