I am an empty nester, alone these days. I recently found a friend, of the opposite sex, and opposite "flavor", but we both hit it off. We talked at least 3 times a week on IM for 2 to 5 hours a time, for 2 1/2 years. Recently I did something really nice for this person, and due to another person butting in, I got upset. All of a sudden it was my fault, and we have done nothing but send nasty emails to each other. It's been 6 weeks now, and altho it's said we will get on line and talk, now I don't beleive it. I feel used by this person, and still can't talk about it without tears. Am I the idiot? Did I go too far? I feel so used by this person, and now see them writing on the board where we met, like nothing is wrong. I am still hurting, and actually thought I had a true friend. Why does it hurt so bad, when will it stop, and will we ever get back together? And if we do, do I want to.....this is why I don't date....it hurts too much. I feel like I will be alone forever.
2006-11-15
15:37:46
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cantwin
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