I was circumcised a few weeks ago and my girlfriend is studying abroad. Should i tell her i got it done or just wait and let her find out herself? How will she respond?
2006-11-15 15:03:45 · 18 answers · asked by Paul C 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
as a woman , i think most woman like them circumcised. (from woman talk) ive been with both . but i find cut ones are much eisier to keep clean . and the un ones can cause alot of problems. i once accidently ripped one where that piece of skin is by the head .. accidently of course... anyway if she lovs you it wont matter but i bet she likes it better!
2006-11-15 15:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by porcelain65711 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that a) you are an adult and b) you had valid reasons for doing this and c) you are still single, what you do to your own body is up to you. Should you tell her about it? What's the point. It's done. If she doesn't like it, there's nothing much you, or she, can do about it. And if she's studying abroad and you're here, by the time she gets back you may be involved with someone else. However, it's your decision.
2006-11-16 01:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in a position to notice the difference, I think it should have come up in conversation before the procedure. Now I would wait until the opportunity presented itself and then get it out and talk it through. If you and she are in a strong love based relationship it won't matter in the long run. But you should be prepared to explain why you kept mum heading into it.
If you wait the whole issue will gain an artificial importance which could be a real roadblock in your relationship. If a couple is truly committed to one another there are no secrets beyond what your getting her for her birthday.
2006-11-15 23:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Hank B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it secret to yourself. Don't bother your girlfriend how a man like you got circumcised at your age now. Usually circumcision takes place at early age of a man or on before age of ten.
2006-11-15 23:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Torex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and this girl are in a serious relationship, you should tell her what you've done. After all, it's nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about and secrets are not good for a loving couple.
2006-11-16 00:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and your girl are close you shouldnt be afraid to tell her about this at anytime... and this is your body and since your an adult im sure you had reasons other then pleasure for doing this because i cant see any man enjoying that. so y should she care if you had it done or not? what difference does it make really? its still a penis and im sure it still works for what she needs it for. if i was your g/f i would be glad that you did what you needed to do to take care of yourself
2006-11-18 14:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what Hank B said!! except i think you should tell her when she gets back. i really dont know why this would be a big deal and if she loves you she will support you and possibly wonder why you kept it a secret. secrets arent good in a serious relationship.
2006-11-16 02:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jessy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paul : I hope that this action initiated on your part doesn't SEVER the relationship between yourself and your gal ! Tell her all of the health benefits from having your banana peeled. Surprise her and tell her that you lost it with your virginity when she sees it !
2006-11-15 23:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH, I don't think it will be a big deal, personally, from a womans perspective, we are not too much interested in the wrapping, we are more into the present.
2006-11-17 08:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by newfie272 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agreed with Edmar R.
2006-11-15 23:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Flory M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋