I've been wondering this in all honesty. I hear women tell me all the time "I want a nice guy" yet all I ever see them go after are trash that treat them poorly. I believe I am a nice guy, I am respectful, courteous, chivalrous... yet everytime I get to know a girl and eventually ask them out I receive the same answer "You're like a brother to me." I then see the same girls that once told me they want a nice guy that treats them well (which I am) and instead they go out with jerks who treat them poorly and cheat on them. I on the other hand hold doors open, am always there when they need to talk, and always respect them, but I get demoted to being "The best friend".
Honest question, what do women want? I am not going to change my personality and start acting like a jerk, because I was brought up that you treat someone with respect and I refuse to abandon those morals. Any suggestions or ideas as to why all the girls I have ever met say one thing, but act a completely different way?
2006-08-27
01:44:55
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Gender Studies