for some bizzare reason i ve lost touch with ladies, any suggetions, use to be quite a playboy now totally zero from hero, i know not nice to put these things under public knife but i dont care, so come on have a go
2006-08-27 01:19:34 · 12 answers · asked by bayernmunich 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
you state that you were quite a playboy and that might well be exactly where the problem lies.
ladies only find playboys attractive for some time before boredom sets in.
playboys are fun to be with but in the end we need a man that is in touch with himself and not pre-occupied with himself.
i am not having a go at you - i am merely suggesting that you drop the playboy image and just be yourself - that's what ladies like in a man - confidence
2006-08-27 01:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the ladies you are after aren't into playboy guys. Don't go out there looking for love, let it find you, it's better that way... spontaneous. Maybe the right lady just hasn't been around lately, just wait and she will come along.
2006-08-27 03:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to impress or show off and what ever you do don't use chat up lines, they are the biggest turn off possible. Be yourself and relax, the more you stress about it the worse it will get. Just be easy going and have a laugh.
2006-08-27 01:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by JenJen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is to focus more on the positve the ladies as you put it dont like the whole play boy thing tey and relax and be your self that will attract them quicker and most of all dont worry everyone goes thru it weather they admit it or not
2006-08-27 01:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by gunner n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound odd, but just stop caring. Apply that to every aspect of what you do now and you will be suprised of the results.
2006-08-27 01:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by mixwithanything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the times.
It's not attractive to still look like you live in 1985
Get your confidence back
Confidence is what does it with the ladies.
2006-08-27 01:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to hard sun beam ever noticed that wnen your out with a las and not looking you get more attention .dont ask me why must be a girl thing go out get drunk with your mate and just go with the flow
2006-08-27 01:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just figure out if you're happy or not! If not go get yourself a woman asap and figure out if that makes you happier. Life is as easy as you make it or take it!
2006-08-27 01:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!
2006-08-27 01:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youe spark will be back,maybe its on holiday good luck
2006-08-27 01:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by cute sexy little feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋