Whenever I get into an argument with, pretty much anyone, I feel like it's unfair. I am always the one who tries to understand the other persons side, and the other side never bothers to understand how I'm feeling about the situation. I'll give you an example. Whenever something is their fault, they somehow manage to turn it around and make me feel bad about being upset. Recently my friends backstabbed me and one of my other friends told me about it. I told her how upsetting it was to know how they really felt about me, and she was justifying their doing so, and taking their side. It was like, I had to understand that they had every reason to do so, and they didin't even acknowledge that what they did hurt me. How can I take control of situations like this?
2006-08-22
03:59:42
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