If you didn't have a Father or you had a terrible one, I know that feeling, I know the feeling of having that missing piece in your life. Mine was an abusive drunk beyond belief. If that is you then I'd like to share what I have learned with you. You can be the parent we never got, you can give them what we never recieved. You give them what we all wanted so badly..we all ready know what to give..it's exactly what we wanted in a father. I know the fear of being a parent...don't let that stop you...I have 3 wonderful children that I adore and just bathed in love every day of their lives...they are all grown now. I never allowed a day to go by without a hug and made them feel extremely valued and loved..love lavishly without hesitation.
Give them what WE wanted. Yes bad things happened to us..but that's not the question...it's what is our reaction to this...chose LOVE!
Do you agree?
2006-08-07
09:59:35
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