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2006-08-07 10:53:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The problem is normally when you are lookin you do not notice that you push your self on people. This will make you seem controlling because you want to be with them every minute of the day and night. I don't know about you but that would make me run. I want my own time to do my thing. If you can just go out or do things with people and have fun and not get in a guys / gals face. You will find someone will be looking at you which normally means intrest. Just say hi and smile and if they are intrested and have anything to say they will.
But never look or act like you are lookin because if you are female you will just get laid a lot and never anything lasting. If you are a guy and you act or look like you are lookin you will be avoided by women because they don't want your bagage and problems because it normally means you just brokeup with someone and you will be a winer.
I hope I said that right.
2006-08-07 10:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is complicated. First of all you have to stop accepting bad relationships and instead, focus on being the best you can be by developing your gifts, talents and aptitudes. Get to work on your own life. That will allow you to recognize another person who is also working on their life and waiting for the right love or non at all. Then you can find them.
Once you've found them, you have to stay close and honest enough with one another, to hold on to what you've found, becoming positive parts of each other's lives, openly discussing whatever problems or situations come up. You must work together always as a team to rid your shared life of troubles and guide it towards blessings. And never stop doing nice, romantic things together. Are you willing to wait until the right love comes then give it all you've got?
2006-08-07 11:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by jazzcrazy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a question so powerful, even the late Freddie Mercury knew exactly how much it hurt him when he found himself singing those words. You can hear his pain, and know just what it was to be so alienated, as a gay man in a homophobic world.
The question of how we can find someone to love is something we all ask, at some point in our lives. I can't help you to find someone for you - I can't even find a woman for myself - but all I can tell you is that you're not alone in this.
And maybe chance and Fate will roll those dice in your favour some day, soon. Who knows.
2006-08-07 11:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Domeka, we CAN find one to love; we just have to NOT set way too high standards and expect to find one who can meet EVERY standard.
We can adapt to the art of compromisation; giving one a "curve" on traits that are tolerable. So, list down what you want in a companion and look around to see if one fits the bill--just accept they may NOT fit the complete bill, though.
Right now, I suspect you just feel the whole dam thing is not worth trying.....give yourself a little time for such feelings to pass, then go forward with your search. It'll happen when you least expect it.
2006-08-07 11:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to love strawberry ice cream and a beer on a hot day while watching the sun set in a bluey pink sky. People love is nuts, stay single and learn to love yourself and the simple things instead, avoid a broken heart.
2006-08-07 10:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by just-dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly too busy concentrating on survival(see Mazlo's hierarchy of needs) Whilst potential mates are likewise busy.
Suggest solution lies on holiday where all survival needs are met (for short term) and the two sides can concentrate on higher things!
If holiday(or like) not possible you may be lonely for a long time
2006-08-09 04:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by tagaro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we must as the first love (accept) our-self completely as we are. To reach this point we must invest some energy to improve our qualities, such as independence, reliability, diligence, sensitivity, responsibility, awareness. Without this qualities it is not possible to recognise the convenient person (having the same qualities), to find someone to love.
2006-08-08 02:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by oceangleam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no dearth of lovable things around you.One should himself become a person who loves other.Do not restrict your love for a few.Love all whether human being ,bird ,animal,plants flowers ,books,whether dead or alive.No categorisation and enjoy their company.
2006-08-07 22:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by khan a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love humanity.
2006-08-07 11:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Lefty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny my problem has always finding too many people to love
2006-08-07 10:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋