I had a miscarriage last Thursday. I was about 5 1/2 weeks pregnant (did not need a D&C). I am absolutely devastated. I wanted this baby so badly. I just don't understand why this happened to me (or to so many good people in this world). I am a good person, eat very well, very healthy, don't drink/smoke, and exercise (in moderation). The physical pain of the miscarriage was great, but not in comparison to the emotional one. This was my first pregnancy. It is hard not to blame yourself or think that this is a punishment of some kind for something you've done. I will be so scared in my next pregnancy. I don't know if I could deal with this again. My doctor said I could wait until I get one period and try that month. I think the bleeding will stop today. But I read that sometimes you should wait 2-3 months. Which one is it? But most importantly, how did you get through this? Sorry for the long email, but I really need all the support I can get. Thank you.
2007-01-22
02:49:23
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