My significant other has been going through menopause. I'm trying to understand and be patient because I love this gal with all my heart, but I am running out of patience and feel guilty about it.
We were extremely physical for a long time when we first began our relationship. I've never experienced anything like it and am reluctant to let that part of our relationship go away. But it's not my choice. She doesn't seem to miss the intimacy. We've been active on rare occasions, but nothing like it was before, and I think when we are physical, she's doing it just for me. I don't want "mercy sex"...I want my lover back, or at least some of the passion we had.
I've tried to talk to her about it, but she gets offended and says I need a younger woman. I don't want anyone else but her...nothing else would compare. Sometimes I wish we wouldn't have met because you don't miss what you never had.
Help me please...I don't want to loose her, but I'm not dead yet.
2007-02-01
02:04:33
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