He is completely unreliable and hurts me a lot (promises to be around and then breaks those promises, has mental black outs, constantly inquires if I want someone else) and everytime he does I vow to myself that I will not let it happen again and I should get out of the relationship. However I do really love him and he takes any attempt on my part to end the hurt extremely badly (ie begs, pleads, cries to me to "not do this to him now") and as I am not stone cold I find I keep taking him back. He is seeing a psych and a psychologist also but to be honest they do not appear to be helping him much at all, he is also on anti-depressants.
My question is, what can I do to make him and me happy if he cannot stop hurting me? He is not malicious at all. I have been supporting him as much as I can emotionally for the majority of this year but I feel that I have lost control of the relationship and it goes around in circles. Has anyone had a similar experience?
Thanks for any response
2006-07-30
15:26:00
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elli
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