How do i boost it if i dont have any at all??? and if i do how do i keep it up
2006-07-30 15:39:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
For starters, take some of the advice that you might give to someone else if they were having self esteem issues. Like "you do deserve better from life. don't waste time trying to figure out if you deserve it, just know it and be unwavering in getting it. There isn't any one person out there that knows how to be better at being you than you do right? There is no expert that can critique your performance at being you and realitically, grade that performance whether it be great or whether it be poor because it is not within their scope of practice to do so.
There is no reason to have a low self esteem if you cant remember a time when you were laughed at for trying out for cheerleader, or rejected after asking the most popular boy or girl out, or being chose last for sports, or not being invited over for activities that others went to. Do you ever stop and look at those doing the laughing, or the rejecting, or the choosing? Whats really going on? Why should they need to tear down your self esteem in order to boost their own? Do you concure with their inuendos, or remarks or actions, or do you feel peace when you realize that you would never do that because you know how it hurts. That is where you begin to feel confident about yourself, you don't need their approval, because you have already bested them at being what it means to be compassionate, kind, concerning, and waking everyday not having to be sorry for trying to be less in order to fit in. "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherite the earth."
2006-07-30 17:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by lisa l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you feel you have some self-esteem or you wouldn't be asking how to boost it. The best advise I can give you is to surround yourself with positive people who love you. Every person has a gift or something they do well. Find yours and enhance your skills and you will feel pride in yourself.
Best of luck to you.
2006-07-30 22:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to believe in youself cause if you do not know one else will. It does not matter what other people think. Just hold your head up high and be the best person you can be.
2006-07-30 22:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lakendra D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋