ok so about 2 weeks ago we had a big family gathering and famlily from arazona, colorado, and alabama flew in to where i live in south carolina. any hoe about the mid point of the gathering my grand mothers brothers grand daughter showed up. now i know i should not think this was but ever sense i saw her i keep geeting the urge to do her. WHY! i have tried all my life not to be a redneck but yet i have the untimate redneck thought in my head! shes very pretty and nice but so are my other cousins and i dont want to do them. could it be because ithis was one of the very few times i have seen her? (i see that part of the family abouit every 2 years.)
now 2 weeks after the gathering i still get the ides to throw her down and make her scream with pleasure. why! ths is sick! i have no idea when i have thes thoughs! i know i would never hurt her or any other women but yet i cant seem to stop thinking like this!
2006-07-30 13:51:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
sorry for the grammar i am on break and have to do this fast. yes i work on sunday
2006-07-30 13:53:27 · update #1
osageavenger tell me how thats normal? oops time for worke buy!
2006-07-30 13:55:43 · update #2
Here is the Best Answer. Its not bad to want to screw your cousin. If it is a thought that is in your mind- it got there for a reason. You can not control what your thoughts are or will be. You absolutely can control your actions- the things that you do about your thoughts. In conclusion, there may not even be anything wrong actually doing it with her if she is feeling the same way and its consensual- she is over 12, right? :)
I'm not getting into the legal or moral issues.
2006-07-30 14:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually, recent studies have shown that even a mating between first cousins only raises the chance of genetic problems in the child by a fraction of a percent. So, medically speaking, there's nothing really wrong with it. Relax - it'll probably pass anyway, and I doubt she'd be interested.
2006-07-30 20:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by sous_lepontmirabeau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you're probably attracted to her just because you want what you can't have, not because you like enjoy screwing your family members or something.
Whether or not it's legal where you are, or whether or not she's your first or second cousin, acting on your feelings is a bad idea. Whether you want a fling or a marriage with her, if your family knew, it would be beyond awkward, and I doubt they'd take it well.
I say that you're not "disgusting" or "crazy", but I also say that you shouldn't actually go and have sex with your cousin, even if she wants it.
Good luck.
2006-07-30 21:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bright Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say they screwing your cousin is wrong because if you have a child it will be born with retardation or serious birth defects. Keep in mind marrying a cousin is illegal. And yes it is looked upon by others as a "redneck".
2006-07-30 20:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by deadly_nightshade5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sick, before this you didn't even know her. Or so I assume from the way you wrote. But should you do her? NO! Too many genetic problems from inbreeding, you don't want to tempt fate. Plus it's a big time no-no in this society to have sex with family.
2006-07-30 20:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never share such a personal problem like that with the whole Internet! so anyway whats ur question?... i guess u really cant cuz its wrong. just get someone else it'll put off the urge. cuz think! what if u get her pregnant?!! ur whole family will find out and disown u! lol i dont know just trying to help u think about not doing it.
2006-07-30 20:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bored silly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not one of your parents brothers or sisters daughters then shes not a first cousin, and you are allowed to marry second cousins, shes new which likely has you gowing, it might upset your family though, so think about it, shes not local i guess, so the temptation may not be brought into play too often.
2006-07-30 20:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First cousin? Yeah that's pretty bad. Not as bad as it would be if she was your sister, but still that could lead to trouble.
2006-07-30 20:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Kayti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol........ You said Alabama! it is legal in Ala to marry your cousin .....lol But I have cousins in Alabama and no I personally would not want to bang them. but thats you
2006-07-30 20:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by inquiring minds want to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Muslim tradition allows for marriage of first cousins.Hang in their.Pray.Let go and see what happens.Good luck!!!!
2006-07-30 20:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Louis a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋