Coming out of the closet will make me happier, but my parents, family, friends miserable. People don't understand that being gay is not a choice. Anyway, if I decide to come out of the closet that would mean I have to move to a more civilized country. That's what I would like to do for my own sake. But this will ruin the lives of my parents, some friends and family. I am already under pressure to get married, which, of course, can't happen and I don't know whether I should be selfish and try to immigrate somewhere and reveal my identity and thus make my parents whom I love to death unhappiest people on the earth or just keep on living suffering and cursing my luck and my orientation every day. Once I asked my brother what he would do if he had a gay sibling, he said he would kill him/her or kill himself cuz of the stigma and the society's attitude. I could kill myself and I'm fine with that, but I don't know if this is the "average" of the two solutions. So happier I or happier family?
2007-04-07
00:51:28
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