My darling bf, we'll call him ANGUS... he was brought up horribly. I am guessing there was alot of neglect and abuse. Well, I don't know how to 'handle' him. He gets angry and rages. Not toward me but if I am in the vicinity, I am not immune. He's never been treated well and now he doesn't know how to process that someone cares about HIM. Angus is very affectionate, passionate, works hard, and treats me well 95% of the time. We do not fight - and that is partially because I am afraid to bring things up in fear that he will start in on one of his tirades.
I think if he was able to explore some of the emotional issues under this anger and lack of control, it may help him but I don't know how to approach the subject without him getting upset. Please... save my mind, people! A D V I C E !
2007-04-07
19:53:12
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