my bf likes to touch me u know where and but he dont let me touch him he always grabs my hands when i start to touch his u know what, and this also happened with other guys before its like they dont like it and im just trying to make him feel good if he does not like that what other things can i do to make him feel good if u know what i mean?
2007-04-06 14:48:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
sorry!...ok the "u know what" is the penis and my question was why doesent he let me touch it....ok i hope that helped!
2007-04-06 15:32:54 · update #1
Ah dont worry about it, just take it slow with him he's probally just not used to another person touching him down there yet. When i was about 14 my girlfriend used to try to touch me down there but i always moved her hands away but she was like relax so i closed my eyes relaxed it took a few minutes but I felt better after and after that we just got comfortable more and more with each other. So just take it slow, tell him to relax ya know.
2007-04-06 15:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Beast 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
By the way you talk, Im guessing you're fairly young and messing around with fairly young guys. Take it from someone that was a fairly young guy once.....you touching "you know what" for more than a short time would probably end the good times pretty quick. It takes a while for most guys to learn how to control the "happy finish". Girls take alot longer to pleasure and if you play with him at the same time he plays with you....you will never get to your happy finish.
I hope that made sense
2007-04-06 14:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by davi1033 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well im thinkin your about 14 or 15 first off since you havent matured enough to call it a penis, it has a name. have you tried asking why he wont let you touch his penis? Try talking to him before you go asking a bunch of freakin strangers on yahoo!
2007-04-06 14:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by official bowl loader 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some Guys don't like anyone to touch there penis because by touching it sometime it dosen't get erected right then and there.
2007-04-06 16:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not precisely sure what the "you-know-what" is that is causing all this trouble.... if you are handling men and they don't like it.. then maybe you should try a little conversation ..... I think your question is what feels good?
Answer: It feels good to be with a person who knows what they like and tells me so I can "do that thing" right.... share a little, and ask for permission before you put your finger in his butt~ whatever.
2007-04-06 14:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend likes to grope your privates, but won't let you grope his?
Huh? Is he a girl pretending to be a boy?
Most guys *like* their girl to give them a hand job...if that's all they're going to receive.
The only thing I can think of is he is self-conscious about his size, and from the sounds of it, you could have had a streak of "small" boy friends.
2007-04-06 15:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is weird and i do mean weird. also how old are you and how old are your boyfriends. cuz guys usually like girls to touch em. maybe he is small in size and is a little embarrassed. i really dont know why this is a problem. you should just enjoy the pleasure that they give you. are you sure they are not gay? this is kinda odd.
2007-04-06 16:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by ralph d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is an odd situation. Normally guys want you to touch them.
2007-04-07 06:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by James R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I noticed you tried to be decent, but it's called a penis and yahoo won't remove your question unless you call it something like a dick. I think the problem might be that his penis isn't full enough yet. Guys with a smaller penis erect to average, but when you grap him, he may not be hard yet.
2007-04-06 15:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by rex2657 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hm I have studied this question for some time now,read it and re read it.I am now confident that I can answer with a sense of authority.The "you know where' is um well you know where and the "you know what is actually his erm,um hmm his er well,you know what.I hope this clears up any ambiguities.
2007-04-06 15:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋