My boyfriend is impotent, but unless he has an operation to remove his tubes and have an implant, he can only get half an erection. Consequently we have no physical contact in any sexual form, which is frustrating for me. I have offered to have sex with another woman in front of him, to masterbate in front of him, offered to do anything for him, but he says that he feels nothing and he he doesn't want us to be physical as it is not fair for me to get aroused and then not be satisfied. He has some porn movies, which I am happy to watch with him, but he says he doesn't use them anymore and only did when he was single. I am desparate to understand what he is feeling, whether he does get aroused, to find out what I can do for him. Obviously it is a subject which hurts and frustrates us both and although ulitmately for us to sort out I would like some input from other men who have this problem. I think he is worth hanging onto.
2007-04-05
04:20:08
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julie s
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