I have a live in b/f of 1.5 years that has been taking care of his Mom w/ lung and now brain cancer. She has been given 6 wks to live and is scared but still fighting. He stays every other night (her wishes). I support him and help as much as possible. We r a team on that level, but everything else is crumbling. We bicker when 2gether, no intimacy. I feel like we can't wait for each other to leave, but then we miss one another. His father passed 10 yrs. ago, he is 26 and acting 16 when at home. Smart aleck, hateful, and then sorry. I feel like his mother. I keep feeling that if it were not for the circumstances I would kick him out! And I feel so guilty for that. We love each other, but there are rarely real smiles around here anymore when we are 2gether. He ignores me and everything else (but the dog!) until he needs something it seems, he is relying on me for Everything and wearing me out. I don't know what to do, any thoughts on death/caretaking or how loved ones acted are welcome.
2007-09-25
17:58:54
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Elle
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