my mom died a year and half go i just wondering if anyone wanted to talk to about it?
2007-09-25 15:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
My mother died over 20 years ago of breast cancer after having treatments and remissions for 17 years.
I was 28 at the time, I was 11 when she was first diagnosed.
I lost my father 3 years later, following a heart attack.
I still love and miss them, perhaps never more than when I got my own diagnosis of breast cancer 3 years ago.
I still feel them with me, looking out for me and caring for me, but that is part of my personal belief/faith. We each need to find our own way to cope with the death of someone close.
Hugs, she still loves and cares for you!
2007-09-25 19:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tarkarri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no. I have a mother figure that just passed away with cancer. It's really hard. It would be even harder if it was my real mom because she is my best friend. I just had my first child, a daughter. She was in the hospital doing well. the day I was discharged she was not doing well so we told her we would bring the baby up that Friday to see her. she was very excited. We were getting oour daughter ready to go when we got the call. I cried and cried for hours because she didn't get to see my little girl. On the good side of things she can see her now as your mom can see you and yours. She knows you are expecting and she will be able to see the new baby and watch over all of you. It is very painful to deal with the loss of someone that close to you. It will be okay and I know it's hard to think so because of your hormones but she is in a better place and she is happy. My real mother is having surgery tommorrow on her neck. I know she will be fine but I can't always help but wonder. Just enjoy this pregnancy because your mom will see you grow every step of the way. Congratulations on the baby and I am so sorry about your mother. My condolences to you and your family.
2016-05-18 22:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom is still alive, but she's had breast cancer 3 times and lost a breast and all her lymph nodes to breast cancer in the '70's.
I am so sorry for your loss, but I will also tell you that I don't believe AT ALL that death is the end. She is still your mama and she is still loving you, and still trying to communicate with you and is watching over you from the other side. Pay attention to your dreams, and just reach out to her and talk to her. I believe she can hear you!
2007-09-25 15:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by calyx156 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have lost my mom to lung cancer and I still dream about her and think about her every day. It's been almost 20 years now. My dreams about my mom is just about her and me and when I was a little kid, but the weird thing is, my mom is healthy in my dreams and I am happy that I am with her. My mom was my best friend and she is always with me and I know, that she is my guardian angel.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am a breast cancer survivor and think of this disease every day.
2007-09-25 17:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, please let me say, I am so sorry for your loss. I am one of the lucky ones that hasn't lost someone close, to breast cancer, but I will say everytime I have a choice between a plain label and one with a pink ribbon, I buy the pink ribbon. I try to buy everything pink. If we all keep contributing and fighting for awareness, a cure will be found. I always encourage everyone I know to help join the fight against breast cancer. Your mother was one of the bravest of all, and her memory will not ever be lost, and her fight was honorable.
2007-09-25 15:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Ms. Psyche♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw im so sorry =(.. my mom died about 4 1/2 years ago, when i was 14... but it wasnt from breast cancer. & I know its really hard to deal with =( i still think about her every day.
2007-09-25 15:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by *Babycakes* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My Mum died two weeks ago. not from breast cancer she had kidney, liver lung cancer she was sick for 3 months. She was my best friend Im devastated and im finding it hard to grieve. please contact me if you like.
2007-09-27 00:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine did about 4 years ago. I didn't know and she didn't either.
No one loves you more than your mom.
2007-09-25 15:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
mine did
feel free to email me
2007-09-25 15:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Nordic Combiner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋