Singles & Dating - 15 August 2007

My question is would you prefer a guy that dosent have a six pack abs or one that have six pack abs?

I been asking girls and they all say yes . what turns you on about them? I wanted to know beacuase Im going to start working out this weekend to get them. wish me luck :D

2007-08-15 06:43:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's the "shy guy type"...and a late bloomer (20's)- never been kissed, had a relationship or any romantic physical contact.
We've been friends for years and he's liked me since the beg. It took me three yrs to realize i had serious and real feelings fo him and when we figured it out, i gave him his first kiss and was pretty much the "closest thing he's had to a relationship". We decided to stay friends because we didn't wanna risk anything too soon. It was MUTUAL.

RIGHT AFTER, he lost someone close so he's pushed me away out of everyone else. He seems to be doing "okay" now but doesn't wanna get that close to me - he gave me a TEXT that was non sense saying i "shouldn't wait for him" - even though we ALREADY decided to stay friends. Before that he kept going back and fourth saying i should "be with other guys" yet "girls get to decide whoever they want to be with". I felt so hurt and disrepsected I never responded back.

It's been 3 weeks. I was thinking of writing him an EMAIL and telling him the entire truth and not hold him back but i have a PROBLEM. When the "txt situation" happened, one of my girlfriends left a comment pretty much insulting him but w. no name. His best friend saw and copied and pasted on his page - NOW i'm thinking he pretty much hates me and took it heart...I'm afraid he's gonna have a grudge against me for life. I wanted to wait and write the email when i'm completely calm and not as hurt but i don't wanna send it to him if he's sitll heated about things.

What do i do? Will he have a grudge against me?

2007-08-15 06:41:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think its because of their respect for Black Men. You don't have to treat them like sh** to get respect. If lay it down, grab there hair, go to work, and try to better yourself, they love you. I wish Black Women would hold theirselvees to hire respect levels. (This is a very general view I know)

2007-08-15 06:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

omg myy cousin keps askin me and i keep tellin her to ask her mom. She is OBVIOUSLY NOT GOING TO DO THAT so can u help???

2007-08-15 06:37:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

after a slew of bad set ups one of my close friends decided to set me up on a blind date with one of his best friends. i trust this friend emmensily so i have no qualms about meeting this new person. upon meeting this new person i really liked everything he stood for.. good morals, great sense of humor, very caring, all around - great guy. my problem is i'm not completely sure if i like him.... i'm kind of bothered by the fact that he smiles so much. don't get me wrong it's a nice smile, but he's always smiling.... and it's making me uncomfortable. his smile is always like "i just got a brand new bike (on christmas)" i'm starting to feel a little uncomfortable with the relationship and i don't know if i should go with my instincts and stop dating him or let it go further and see if things work out.

2007-08-15 06:36:36 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

so I know this girl and need to know how she will act if she is interested in you? i know her just few months and we literary met only few times at parties and once in person but the vibe i get like we been friends for a long time, lol, thats very unusual
so what kind of signs or behavior should i be looking out for?

im out of town and you go to some bday party or your sisters on weekend night would you send me txt msg in the middle of party just to see what im doing or do you do that with all your friends?
because i know if im out at a party and im having a good time i dont text people out of a blue unless I like them little more than a friend or if we running low on liquor lol
or she txts me from work to tell me she is in bad mood cauze she is PMS-ing and needs a chocolate, lol
am i making too much out of it or is she giving me definite go ahead signs?
btw, when we were out for drinks, i could see some body language that says yes and some that say....well i dont know what were the signs
like we having a good time and she is playing with her hair twisting it around her finger and her hair are very short, and late she is flicking a lighter on and off but i dont think she was bored at all, because we were supposed to sit there for an hour but it turned into 3
so when we txt back and forth and she is telling me about the movie she is watching and tells me that i must see it so i tell her "ok but would you want to see it again so soon?"
and she completely avoids answering the question :-) and changes the topic by asking if i talked to my ex since the break up......dont know why cauze she doesnt even know her , she seen her maybe 4 times
btw she is a gemini and im an aries

2007-08-15 06:28:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

a girly girl or a girl that was one of you the "guys"
And why my friend would like to know

2007-08-15 06:27:16 · 5 answers · asked by I♥EdwardCullen 3

devon asked joseph if he likes me joseph said no a few weeks later devon asked him if you had a chance to go out with missa would you joseph said yes i guess a day later i asked devin if joseph wanted to go out devon said maybe

2007-08-15 06:21:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-15 06:21:19 · 1 answers · asked by shoker 1

What is the largest one you ever had?

2007-08-15 06:18:49 · 3 answers · asked by Aaron-Brock R 1

What do guys want in a gurl??? Im 16 going on 17 an i find it so difficult to find decent guys...im not looking for anything serious just sumthing fun...but all guys want is to sleep with me...an i plan on staying a virgin because this is the decision iv made...but all the guys iv dated just want sex or cheat on me..whats the deal??? Where are all the decent guys...An im not jealous im a really fun attractive young women with morals...

2007-08-15 06:18:12 · 2 answers · asked by cutiestnowgurl 2

Which one is better, easier to use(user friendly) etc???

2007-08-15 06:15:47 · 6 answers · asked by nessa 1

I really need help!!!!!!

2007-08-15 06:14:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 45 female and a guy 33 is interested in me. From those of you who have been in age gap relationships before such as this, what are some of the possible challedges that I might face in a relationship such as this? He seems to be very mature and focused.

2007-08-15 06:14:16 · 51 answers · asked by 43andcurious 2

i love to talk to him. i dont like it when he is upset. i wan him to be impressed with me. i go online whenever he is online just os i can talk to him. i hate it when he talks about other women that he is interested in. i really care about him. is this love or simply infatuation?

2007-08-15 06:09:56 · 2 answers · asked by *♫* £a£a *♫* 4

Just last night he confessed to me he hates everything about himself and tricked me into admiting that i wish his penis was bigger. He said that was the main problem he had and i dont know how to make him believe that i'm perfectly happy with him just how he is. What can i do to make him believe that he's good enough?

2007-08-15 06:09:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If she was to masturbate for you, like put on a show, would that be a turn on, or would you prefer to not see that? It's something my boyfriend was talking about...

2007-08-15 06:07:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

tried multiple partners?

2007-08-15 06:07:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex boyfreind recently got married and he told me that it was more business than pleasure with him and the girl that he married and i am still his freind and still talks to him but i am not sure if i like the fact that he would marry someone to stay in the country and not for love. i am not sure if there is anything wrong with that what do you think...........................................does he secretly love her..........

2007-08-15 06:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by Chanel B 1

so there is this guy at my church. lets say his name is Nathan. he asks me to hold his hand and he always tells me "I love you" i have a huge crush on him and i am not sure if he likes me for real, so i never say it back. oh and by the way, he is four years older than me(i am 12!). please be nice to me(unless that is really what you think), i have had my heart broken too many times.

2007-08-15 06:06:10 · 18 answers · asked by norskie_gurl 3

My ex and have been broken up for a year and a half. In that time she has met someone else. But recently we been spending time together and we have been intimate for a month or two. I told her I want her back but she tell's she cant because she has a boyfriend. I told her that I cant be just friends but she wants me to be her friend. I told all I'm to you is a back up she told me no. Long story short I told I cant talk or see her again she tried to change my mind but I stood my ground. We havent talked or seen each other in a week. The question I have I still want her back but what should I do. And should I have cut her off or just waited to see how things were going to go. I want her back in my life. We were together for 3 years.

2007-08-15 06:02:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the most romantic movie to watch with your BF or date......doesnt have to be a current movie thats out....
I like Meet Joe Black

2007-08-15 06:02:00 · 16 answers · asked by oklasoonersgrl 2

soooory and his mood was still the same this morning. he said that he was very upset at me .... im like for what? i know i didnt do anything,i know i start an arugment, i was sleep when he came in at 915 last night this morning he said that i was acting funny when he came in. how can i act funny when i just woke up? we was the one acting funny when he came in. that is when i told him that she had called for him and i and i tld him everything she said.that is when his mood started to change.he said well im not going to talk to her know . for what he didnt do anything right? i ask him you have been going to school for 2yrs and you just started talking to her?he said that he had her number before he lost it. and when i told him she called he was soooo exicted to know that she called. that is what makes me think he has something up his sleeves. he also said that he got her number because she is throwing a party. she said that was not true.he was beging to come over when you gona let me.

2007-08-15 05:56:18 · 6 answers · asked by jessica f 1

Okay this is really serious and I need help. There is this guy I like. I have known him since high school, we graduated this year and well there are times where he calls me and talks to me and then there are times when I call him and talk to him. Are conversations dont last very long, the longest we have ever talked is about 10mins on the phone. I have told some of my friends about me liking him and they say that I am to good for him that he isnt good enough and that I can do better. Well I have known him for a year and a 1/2 and I feel that I know him pretty well. He has no Idea that I like him and I want to tell him but I dont know how. I dont want to be straight up and tell him "I like you" I want to kind of give him hints rather than just tell him. What kind of hints would you give a guy/girl.
P.S. he is a class clown and he might not take it seriously I want him to take it seriously though.
The reason my friends say that im to good for him is cuz of looks and how he is a clown

2007-08-15 05:55:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

"The person you are tring to reach has disconneded their phone at this time (and to really kick ya when your down) for now (meaning its just until you go away)" How do you feel when you hear that recording on you phone?

2007-08-15 05:43:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I am lookin for some caucasian woman websites that s not porn

2007-08-15 05:40:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. we recently hit a snag when my mom fell on hard times and my brother and sister had to move in with us in our 1 bedroom apartment. We got into an arguement about my sister calling and asking my bf for a ride from work. He chewed me out stating that it's not his sister and he should not have to pick her up. We have been having the same discussion for the past seven days and that's how long my brother and sister have been at my house. Finally I got upset and told him that we need a break now I regret it. It's been two days since I last seen him and I am too stubborn to call just like he is to stubborn to call me. What should I do?

2007-08-15 05:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by nita23 2

ok my bf started to drink about a while ago. about a week ago he came home drunk and pushed me and i have a bruise on my side.and i left i knew he didnt know what he was doing but since we have been broken up he has sobered up do i go back and take that risk again please help

2007-08-15 05:37:54 · 28 answers · asked by I♥EdwardCullen 3

2007-08-15 05:34:20 · 24 answers · asked by Me 5

"Please hang up and try your call again, this is a recording"
When is the right time then, after you hear it 100 more times then you finally to sit and say hmm it was the wrong number after all?

2007-08-15 05:29:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous