Just last night he confessed to me he hates everything about himself and tricked me into admiting that i wish his penis was bigger. He said that was the main problem he had and i dont know how to make him believe that i'm perfectly happy with him just how he is. What can i do to make him believe that he's good enough?
2007-08-15 06:09:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't really. You can keep talking to him about it, but the fact remains he is dangerous. Insecurities are a lending cause to almost ALL the factors that destroy a relationship. Its better to understand the fact that when we don't love ourselves were not ready for a relationship, so you in love with a person who isn't mature enough to geniunely return it back to you, so you in for hell with this one. Only thing you can do is continue to relate honestly about it. The whole male penis things is very primative in the male psyche and him not getting past that is a big indication that there is a LOT more he needs to work thru. Good luck with that, but next time don't get in a relationship were it requires you to do any sort of raising. Which is what your going to be forced to do..... you know him beter then I do so you figure out wether its worth it for you to continue to fight this good fight or let him be and grow up...... O to reexplain, the reason he isn't returning your love geniunely is because he doesn't believe you, if the love was geniune all it would take is for YOU to say it doesn't matter. Since you said it and he still doesn't get it, its because he doesn't feel you as being anything different then anyone else, just a lair that for some selfish reason of your own loves him, sorry its the way of perception you can't give love you can't give yourself, sorry I know from experince
2007-08-15 08:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋