Singles & Dating - 8 August 2007

there is this guy at my job who has had a crush on me for about 1 and a half years and it is completelly obvious. this year though, people have actually come up to me and said it. He's not the greatest looking guy and he's really shy, but i kinda like him a little too. a lot of people think he is really ugly, but he is really nice. I'm afraid he might be too much of a pushover. should i just forget about him or wait for him to ask me out? Or should i just flirt until i'm ready?

2007-08-08 18:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by jzzybme 4

I mean I am handsome and i have a good body, wanna check my picture go to , myspace.com/txxxm but I don't know , whenever even i am in chatying girls takl with guys but they nevernotice me.

What is wrong with me? does it have to do something with luck?

2007-08-08 18:34:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21 and had a casual fling with my gf's divorced mother (about 50) while my gf was at the office. She seducted me by various intimate physical acts. When I resisted she insulted me by saying I was not a man, and if I was a real man, I must prove it. She now wants me to do it more often and threatens to tell everything to my gf if I don't obey. We've done it twice, but the last time with my gf was a disaster. I could not satisfy her at all. She is angry because she suspects I'm seeing someone else, but she does not know I've done it with her own mother.
I'm very worried and anxious. Should I confess? Please help how I must face this situation.

2007-08-08 18:24:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

you guys told me she wants me to prove it to her but how??????????

2007-08-08 18:20:35 · 15 answers · asked by tama_drummer_7 1

a. plays video games
b. is pretty dang athletic
c. is funny
d. watches sports, wrestling
e. loves to camp in a tent

please anwer to each ei;

a.yes
b. no
c. no
..........and so on


these are under the circumstances that you like everything else about the girl, basically

2007-08-08 18:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-08 18:12:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know that you guys always get questions about guys but this one i REALLY need an answer to, im stuck. ok so.....i really like this guy, he is sweet,funny,nice,caring, and he comes to me with his problems. he is very open with me. and he includes me in everything he does. but.....he's my brothers best friend. im 95% sure that he likes me back, he always helps me when i cry and he tells me im perfect, and when my brother is mean to me - he comes over and says that i dont have to worry bout anything and he says he is my best friend. he is PERFECT. but i dont know if he likes me, i can even be sick, and he still comes near me and takes care of me. do u think he likes me?

2007-08-08 18:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin works for a car dealership & so does he. Anyway, today he approached her with his intentions. Only, she's a teen and he's 50 yrs. old & totally not her speed. She says she told him he had NO chance of getting with her but she doesn't wanta hurt his feelings so what should she do?

2007-08-08 18:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by Da B 4

2007-08-08 18:07:58 · 11 answers · asked by boo 1

Like what do you want to...etc I hate! If I ask him I want his opinion..otherwise I wouldn't ask him. Whatever I do he won't get angry..or say anything...

2007-08-08 17:57:23 · 3 answers · asked by always4him 1

Why would a guy tell you his life story while naked?
How many times he's been in rehab
How much he sacrificed for his sister
How his dad wants nothing to do with him
How his professor pissed him off in college
etc

I didn't ask any questions to prompt him to talk about the above subjects. This was said shortly after a sexaul act I will not disclose on yahoo answers. But I benefitted:)
Anywho what do you think motivated him to babble like this when we were so far from a "relationship"?

2007-08-08 17:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i'm just wondering if you had a girlfriend who was very understanding,loving,simple (she doesn't really ask for much like gifts and stuff) she treats your parents with alot of love and respect so really she's very loving and her heart is always open too you. But you know she loves you more than you love her and you knew in the past you hurt her so much and once you both broke up you realized she did alot just to make you happy sacrifice her own happiness just to make you happy and she asked you one day "what do you think about my love" and let's say you said " i don't love you enought to deserve you" and she said "why would you think that" and you said it's a feeling and i feel like i don't give you enough love to you. now that you both are back together what will you try and prove to her?

2007-08-08 17:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Red K 2

I recently ran into my best friend Cody a couple days ago. I told him that I am falling in love with him. I miss him so much.
I first fell in love with him in 9th grade. He's all I want in a guy.
He's sweet,caring,honest,fun,loving,supportive. Looks dont bother me. Its what is on the inside. I'd do anything to be with Cody. What do I do?

2007-08-08 17:40:40 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5

k basicly we started school last week. but this week boys started asking me out. Ive had like 3 guys coming up and saying they like me and yesterday i also got asked out and same today, by a different person. I need help. The one who asked me out today is really cute! hes taller, muscular, and Japanese or Chinese. should i go out with him? It would nice to have him as a bf not only cause hes cute but also cause it would stop everyone asking me out! anyway...help???? advice? dont tell me to de-pretty myself! :P

2007-08-08 17:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-08 17:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by hanna 2

should i continue to be picky searching for the right guy, or not be as picky and see if i change my mind as to what i'm looking for?
it's difficult!! i'm tooo picky!!.....i think

2007-08-08 17:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay this may sound confusing so i'm gonna make it as clear as possible. I have two friends. One guy who we'll call D and one girl who we'll call G. So Me and G are friends through church and me and D are just regular friends. Well D used to go to my church a long time ago. On facebook, G recognized D from church back in middle school and started commenting eachother. I then read that they were handing eachothers numbers out and have been texting eachother. The thing is...I like G, and maybe want a relationship. (she's a year younger than I, while D is the same grade as me)D said he is gonna start becoming more involved with my youth group this year, which means that G and D will see eachother more often and become closer. I don't want G starting to like D...so my question is, what should I do? Is this even a big deal?

If you need me to clarify, just ask and i'll try to add any needed info.

2007-08-08 17:31:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I've sort of gone over this before but I want to know what you would do in my situation if it was your guy.

My boyfriend likes hanging out with a certain group of friends alot. Sometimes he even cuts our time short to go and see them. For me it just bugs the hell out of me. I mean normally it would be kind of ok because friendships are good to have. The problem is that one of those friends is in love with my boyfriend and he knows it. He knows it bugs me but is still friends with her. And they are always talking to each other and making plans to do stuff. Like he didn't even tell me but I found out that he is going to spend a whole day with her to celebrate her birthday and to celebrate his her family is going to take him out to dinner and stuff. So I basically don't even really get to see him on his birthday. I think part of it is because I am always here so he thinks he can just hang out with me whenever or something. I dunno really. But what would you do if you were me?

2007-08-08 17:30:04 · 23 answers · asked by victoria 2

My g/f got a bunch of adult toys online and i feel angry for some reason. We stopped doing it a couple years ago, b/c she has disgusting rape fantasies and it was just disturbing to me! She wanted me to tie her up and do it hard! She was severely abused as a child. Other than that, she is sweetheart.

I dont' know why these toys bother me and why I just don't want to have sex with her. She told me she can't enjoy pleasure and has to pretend she is another girl.

My guy friends told me I should just enjoy it and kinky is in, what do you think. Remember she saved my life in past so I don't want to be too mean.

2007-08-08 17:25:58 · 1 answers · asked by Jack Bent 4

my friend claims 2 b in love with a girl he met in a chatroom and exchanged im's with..i talked 2 her and she seems 2 like him but he said 2 me that there isn't much of a chance of him going 2 her country this year!!!

2007-08-08 17:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by jonathan c 1

2007-08-08 17:20:37 · 4 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4

Beofre intercourse i get really nervous and kind of like tense up.
I was wondering if there was anything i could think about or not think about when we're about to........you know?
Could i be afraid of intimacy?

2007-08-08 17:17:08 · 14 answers · asked by what? 2

2007-08-08 17:14:44 · 1 answers · asked by Big P 1

ok so im still in HS but i just wanna hear from your perspective...so guys please answer!

2007-08-08 17:11:49 · 18 answers · asked by Lily 2

2007-08-08 17:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by replexgirl 6

yeeeeep,why?
(:

2007-08-08 17:06:23 · 18 answers · asked by cobrastarshipx3 2

2007-08-08 17:06:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

tried both approaches got same result. i tried letting girls come to me for3 years but i nevereven gotten even a hug. been ucky to get conversations.then itook an activeapproach and got rejected 6times last year. so now im feeling defeated anddoont know what to do.onydted 1 month my whole lifeand im 21

2007-08-08 17:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by brandon o 2

It's kind of a strange question, I'm not even sure why I'm asking, I guess I'm just curious if other people do this or if I should be wondering why he is...

So we're crazy about each other, there's no doubting that, we chat every nite but for some reason, whenever he wants to express his feelings (usually done by a heart icon) it's at the end of our conversation, when he's going offline and as soon as he posts it, he's offline.
I'm just wondering if he doesn't want to face me after this, or something else...
I'm not gonna doubt his feelings for me, just wondering why he's like that...We kinda just started out... Could that be a problem?

YES I do know him. I know his friends and I'm assured there's only me. We only recently started dating.
Read the WHOLE thing before posting I hate stupid answers, that come from not reading properly.

2007-08-08 17:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by ██████████ 3

Why did my ex boyfriend not say anything to the guys that were hitting on me in front of him ( I ignored them) while we were at the bar... and THEN bring up the fact that guy x was hitting on me, "Oh that guy would be so jealous right now" WHILE we were having sex.
He did this several times and when I asked him why he did this he admitted that it was a stupid thing to say. Why do you think he did this?

2007-08-08 17:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous