Singles & Dating - 8 August 2007

I find this happening a lot lately, and I feel awkward about it. I had been accostumed to having men approach and broach conversation if they found me attractive (foreign men still do this, not white American men). I feel unsure about myself in turning this around, but the behaviour I'm seeing seems to suggest that I'm supposed to if I ever want to have a date again. With Internet dating and a host of other sociocultural neuroticisms, it i becoming impossible to connect with people because of changes in behaviors and expectations between men and women. Your thoughts please.

2007-08-08 01:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by philosophyangel 7

suggest some ideas

2007-08-08 01:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by rakesh 1

Do men call women "psycho" because they have been "found out"..just curious..Like if I was lied to several times by the same man and he deceived me and my friends/family.Well I am talking about the same man I surprised him with a visit..even though he "invited" me to see him I called 'his bluff" and went even though I said I wasn't coming..Surprise dear!!he says I didn't see stuff that I saw..he tries to say he didn't say stuff that he really said. All my friends say that they loved me and would tell me that i was losing my mind if I was..but they say this guy is manipulating me and trying to say I am delusional so he continues his lies to keep me.This man told me his ex-wife in the middle of the night was hovering over him had a knife saying she was going to kill him.. he said "she was psycho so he divorced her" I think what happened now is she found out she had been deceived and lied to so long ..it made her crazy...because men can make you crazy when they lead double lives.Comments?

2007-08-08 01:30:09 · 3 answers · asked by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3

I have been friends with him since early last year and about 10 minutes ago, he confessed that he has loved me since he met me last year... I just don't know if I wanna go out with him....
My dog did a month ago and everythings so confusing for me now.... I just really want to give him an answer... I just don't know what I want that answer to be...
Can you help me???

2007-08-08 01:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ASKED A QUESTION YESTERDAY REGARDING A GIRL I USED TO DATE BACK LIKE 15 YEARS AGO- I GOT SUPER ADVICE- THANK YOU AND I'M TRYING TO PUT IT IN THE PAST. I SENT HER FRIEND A BLOG ON HER MYSPACE - THIS IS WHAT SHE SAID:

I spoke with her this morning, and I hate to be the one to tell you this, but there's no way she wants anything to do with you, now or in the future.....whether you get divorced or not.

Rebecca is a very strong-willed person, and I have seen her hold grudges for YEARS...so there's really nothing you can do to change her mind.

Please just forget her....maybe seek counselling ? In any case, she wants to forget she ever knew you, and she has stated that she will get a restraining order if you attempt any further contact with her...whether it be directly, or through a 3rd party (like me).

Good luck with everything. Please just leave my friend alone.

2007-08-08 01:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by Joe 2

2007-08-08 01:18:32 · 8 answers · asked by neuken 1

I feel lost , i always feel like it has to be either all or nothing for me. Why can't i just let things go, close my eyes and let my destiny take over. WOW I really feel im going to explode!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-08 01:15:25 · 19 answers · asked by Ms.Cutiepie 1

Been thinking of postponing my marriage but I dont know what to tell my man. I am virgin and we both agreed to keep it until wedding night. But I wanna postpone marriage coz I feel not ready at same time, I am too shy to tell him this reason. I tried so many times even when he drops his usual hints to me and courts me but I could not. He is so caring we love one another but that's the way it is! My friends (girls) scare me a lot when they told me that it hurts a lot ... Dont know what to do?

2007-08-08 01:10:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sara007 5

my girlfriend complains all the time, about the way i sleep, my work (i'm an hr manager) ,my friends, my family, my dog, basically nearly everything, she gets frustrated with me all the time. she even complains with the way i eat, she says i take too long. i can't say anything to her without thinking carefully what i say so that she doesn't get angry. i love her and that is why i care, i know she loves me too at the end of the day, but is difficult to keep her happy all the time when she's in her moods which change alot. what does a person do in a situation like this? is there anything one can do?

2007-08-08 01:06:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy is a retard and is like one of those guyz u see on the jerry springer show. he has had sex with many prostitutes and cheats like hell! but the problem is i dont really know the girl, i just really like her and dont want her to be with this idiot. she used to like me last year but doesnt care anymore. what should i do? i swear to u ,if u dont help me on this one ull see the two idiots on the jerry springer show next season. i get so jealous and im afraid shes gonna let him take her virginity.......any ways i dont wanna get into the sex part because it just hurtsssssss.. tell me what i should do. is the girl worth fighting and dying for?

2007-08-08 01:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a girl has tan/dark skin and she has dark colored nipples like dark brown would that be a turn off?

i'm east indian and i look a bit like anchal (that girl from antm)
http://www.buddytv.com/articles/americas_next_top_model/images/anchal_2.jpg

2007-08-08 00:56:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats it mean if a guy that kissed you a couple of years back did this recently?
moved from side to side (nervousness) while making eye contact with the girl (he is about to be served by the girl at the shop) and says hi- never said hi before while same girl would serve him.
And
on a night out he makes eye contact with the girl while drinking his pint. also he made eye contact with her when she was leaving the place

2007-08-08 00:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-08 00:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by abigloser19 1

I like the type of emo/skater look but my dad really despises them & im only 13 so its not like i can do what ever i want. I dont what to do..advice?

2007-08-08 00:49:46 · 10 answers · asked by Maddisonn. 1

my views are as follows:
G-go to bed
O-off the light
O-out of tension
D-dreams come true
N-nice sleep
I-ignore worries
G-get up earlier
H-have a nice thought
T-thanks to god !!!!!!!!!!!!!
"GOOD NIGHT"

2007-08-08 00:49:29 · 11 answers · asked by gauts 2

this gut is on this online dateing thing and he asked me out we sent pics and stuff{ me 16} should i go with him?!

2007-08-08 00:45:48 · 4 answers · asked by Kia C 1