this guy is a retard and is like one of those guyz u see on the jerry springer show. he has had sex with many prostitutes and cheats like hell! but the problem is i dont really know the girl, i just really like her and dont want her to be with this idiot. she used to like me last year but doesnt care anymore. what should i do? i swear to u ,if u dont help me on this one ull see the two idiots on the jerry springer show next season. i get so jealous and im afraid shes gonna let him take her virginity.......any ways i dont wanna get into the sex part because it just hurtsssssss.. tell me what i should do. is the girl worth fighting and dying for?
2007-08-08 01:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, he's taking the girl out on dates while you sit there and complain about it... Who's the retard?
2007-08-08 01:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? 13? 15? You sound like you have a very immature and unrealistic idea of what love is. Are you sure you want to protect this girl's honor, or perhaps you just want to be the one to get in her pants? That is what is sounds like. You are totally fixated on the sex, and not on the girl herself. How do you even know she IS a virgin? You yourself admit that you don't even really know the girl. Sounds like you're just infatuated, and that is often more driven by lust than love. If you are really interested in the girl, then talk to her. If she turns you down, then be a man and get over it. If she is not interested in you, then you should not waste your time being interested in her. Get out and have some fun. Hang out with your friends. Keep yourself busy. Avoid the girl, and you'll get over her. Then you can start talking to other girls and find one that IS interested in you. No girl is worth "fighting and dying for" if she does not think YOU are worth fighting and dying for as well.
2007-08-08 08:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, breathe, in goes the good air, out goes the bad air. No, she is not worth wrecking your life over. It won't make her want you. It will make you look like the aggressor. You can't punch every retard on the planet as much as we would all like to do that. You'll bring yourself down to his level and make more of an *** out of yourself than he does. That is the trouble with these toxic personalities is if you get involved with it, it will bring you down. Avoid them like Chernobyl because there is no way to get near it and not get sick.
You're not the only one. It makes me ill to see a nice person, girl or boy, with one of those... "guests." He will wreck her life. You just got to sit there and hope it dawns on her in time. As you no doubt already see, he wrecks everyone's life. Some girls think they can change this, and some boys too, and all you will do is bring yourselves down.
I would let her know that you are "worried" about her because he has used and abused everyone else. Let her know you are available to talk with if she gets too caught up in his drama. The people that care sure do see it coming, it is very stressful, and it sounded like to me, you don't want to see her get hurt. There is nothing wrong with saying that. That you'll be there if and when he makes another mess and she is ready to call it quits.
She may get mad trying to protect this idiot but ultimately, when you prove right about him, and your concern for her well being, she will listen, and she will trust you.
You have to care enough to swallow it and do what is right, no mater how hard it is. The right thing is never the easy thing. Tell her I know we haven't talked in a while but this guy is going to dog her and she is too nice of a person for him.
I know it is very stressful but adding to the drama will make it worse. Be as cool headed in this as possible.
2007-08-08 08:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, "retard" is an inappropriate, derogatory term.
Second, if you're not enjoying asking questions, get another hobby.
Third, if this girl you like likes him, what does that say about her? And why do you want to date her?
2007-08-08 08:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont even know this girl well..so, why is it worth fighting and dying for?! TRIPPING!
2007-08-08 08:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋