Singles & Dating - 30 June 2007

my boy friends is goin thrua rough time...he suddenly totaaly cut off from me... he deleted my name from his orkut , my testimonilas,, when i tried callin his his friend said .. he telling to pass on this message to u..as he gets hurt u shouldnot call.. after 6 years..
i felt as he makin a bloody mockery of myself and this realtionship
nomatter what as a friend i stll wanna help him
otherwise my conscious will never allow that i just love him .. that i know he s suffering
he needs me

2007-06-30 09:07:33 · 5 answers · asked by ladybird 2

My 25 yr old BF just moved over 1,000 miles to be with me, left his family, friends and job. I know, that was a lot to give up and he must love me if he did that. I do love him, and initially was really excited that he was here. He has now been here for two weeks and has barely looked for a job. He gets on the internet, looks at a few random jobs and shortly thereafter, gives up, then goes to the couch and goes to sleep. It's the middle of the day! Also, recently I've noticed certain habits of his that drive me nuts - like poor dental hygiene - he only brushes his teeth like once a day - they actually get brown crap in between them and it grosses me out a bit. He weighs 300lbs (which I don't mind as much, as long as he at least makes some effort to eat healthy), and his typical breakfast is a mountain dew and nutty bars. I don't mean to sound like a Bch but these things are causing me to feel less and less attracted to him. How should I deal with this? Thank you for your answer

2007-06-30 09:07:02 · 20 answers · asked by Elle 3

i personally think a little discreet tattoo is one thing, but anything big looks like your're a biker chick and looks
a little tacky. What do you do when you go to the beach or
out to a nice restaurant and this tattoo is sticking out of your
shirt? A little blue collar -I would say

2007-06-30 08:49:32 · 17 answers · asked by don;t know 3

My ex-girlfriend and I are still really close friends. The other day she was telling me that her new boyfriend "pleases her" more because he is bigger. This left me feeling a bit insecure and I was wondering if it is true that bigger is better?

2007-06-30 08:46:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you look for in a girl?

2007-06-30 08:33:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do you love talking about sex?

2007-06-30 08:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a good looking guy and have always had long relationships
but...I'm short
so I was over at my g/f's house and here roommate, made a comment about not liking a guy on tv b/c he was short

and the day b/f another girl, a friend, said she would so sleep with a guy on tv but that he was short.

And I don't ever act offended... I just carry on joking and being nice...

I don't really have any kinda complex but it hurts deep down.

so.... are they saying it to test me...

are they not realizing that I might be offened and just voicing an opinion

or is it really the worst thing to a girl for a guy to be short... except all the girls who I have dated and who have loved me.


are women really this shallow.. it seems quiet common


I mean I wouldn't make fat person jokes if I was sitting next to a fat person...I though women were supposed to be considerate and though about what they said before speaking



had to vent...

thanks for your answers

2007-06-30 08:28:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do you love talking about sex?

2007-06-30 08:23:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-30 08:20:49 · 26 answers · asked by DANITYCANE4 1

How comee most boys never seem to notice me. I mean ... I'm not ugly, not fat, shoulder length blonde hair and blue green eyes. I'm atheletic and I'm nice to everyone. I mean they don't talk to me usuallyy. How comee?

2007-06-30 08:16:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm about 30 yrs old, good looking, easy going, graduated from a top-MBA program and have a dream job lined up after school. But I have trouble meeting girls and sustaining their interest. I have always been concious about the slight stutter in my speech - when I speak to people, I get the feeling that some of them mistake this for nervousness (true in some cases, but totally not in other cases). Sometimes, I can visibly tell that people are "trying to figure me out" and wondering what's wrong with me if I'm not able to pronounce certain words right. This happens on dates as well. My last relationship lasted about 3 years, but I broke up with the girl because I realized that I wasn't crazy about her. I want to meet someone that's a load of fun to be, genuine, passionate and hot. But most of these types of girls are taken already and I'm not meeting girls that I'm excited to go on dates with. So, #1: girls, would you date a stutterer? and #2: what's a good place to meet girls?

2007-06-30 08:15:27 · 20 answers · asked by riddler 1

how do you know if your boyfriend really means it when he says 'i love you'. and dont tell me just trust him bc i already do that

2007-06-30 08:13:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok guys. If you see a really attrative girl do you go up to her, or just look at her and give her looks? Because it really bugs me when guys just give me looks and whistle, why do you guys whistle?

And how do you show a girl your intrested?

Thanks guys your awesome!

2007-06-30 08:09:45 · 7 answers · asked by TexAss 2

Athens myself!

2007-06-30 08:06:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What Body Shape Do You prefer ?? And Why ??

2007-06-30 08:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4

i am a senior in high school and have been hanging out with this girl for a while now and we both like each other and i have heard through my friends and her friends that she wants to date me...i need advice on how to ask her..if i should just ask. in person/on the phone. i just don't know the best way...any help is great thanks

2007-06-30 08:04:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner says that male/female relationships are 95% sex and 5% money. I don't think it's that way. What do you think?

Here are some elements that I feel are in relationships. Can you put a percentage to the ones you think are included? Do you have any to add to the list? Or is he correct?

Conversation
Personal Services (massages, haircuts)
Shared or Admired Hobbies
Emotional connection
Looks
Talents (playing piano, fixing things)
Tastes in music, art, decorating
Supportiveness
Tolerance
Kindness
Sense of Humor
Tenderness
Level of Romance
Point of View
Intelligence Level
Spending Habits
Values
Reality/Fantasy Meter
Athletic Level
Physical Energy Level
Health
Lovability
Popularity
Extrovert/Introvert Level
Patience

2007-06-30 08:03:45 · 2 answers · asked by nora22000 7

what does it mean when a guy u like tells u r a flirt.

2007-06-30 08:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy Ive known for a while, weve been "friends" but ive always liked him and recently it was obvious he liked me too. I called him and asked him to go to the cinema on Monday, and he said yes. Now I feel wierd though. Do guys think badly of or treat girls worse when they make the first move? Evereyone says the woman should wait and so be the one in control but hes really shy and i dont think hed ever ask me.

2007-06-30 07:48:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i know love is the most important thing in choosing your mate but what would you think is hotter?


a doctor? in his scrubs?
a fireman? in all of all of his gear?
a bussiness? man in a nice suite?
a car wash attendant ? in his short shorts?
a cowboy? with a lasso and chaps?

2007-06-30 07:45:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or you my true love if so where have you been and get home lol

2007-06-30 07:44:56 · 4 answers · asked by samb2468 1

if you get back with an ex. even though he has changed for the better. he isn't the man he used to be

2007-06-30 07:42:51 · 12 answers · asked by auroa26 3

2007-06-30 07:42:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this friend who is a girl. we are great friends, and we do have a physical relationship too. but she always is using me, and lying to me time after time. im the shoulder to cry on, and the guy to call when everyone else is busy all everything else you can think of. now i know i love her and vice versa, but i dont want to be in this anymore. im tired of being used, waiting by the phone, getting lied to, and basically only having a purely physical thing with her. we dont go out, or eat out or anything. its only the sex and ill see you at work. thats the ONLY time. what do i say w/out being mean or rude to her to get out of this. thanks

2007-06-30 07:37:59 · 23 answers · asked by brianju 2

2007-06-30 07:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just met this guy on an online dating site and this is the first time I've been online dating and am a little skeptical...we've exchanged only one or 2 IMs...i was very happy because let's just say this guy is really hot. It says on his profile he's from Louisiana but I'm on the east coast. When we exchanged our 1st IM he said he was in Nigeria(this country's reputation is well known) getting his master's degree but is returning to my state and has a job with a big name computer company. However, his profile has disappeared off the original site where we made contact and I have no way of pulling it back up....he also has a my space page with same pic he sent me....there hasn't been a request for money/assistance anything like that...I'm just trying to get some feedback/info to see if anyone else has seen/heard of this. Thanks

2007-06-30 07:31:11 · 2 answers · asked by coulson 1

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ughh so my friend thinks she's terribly ugly and she thinks she weighs a ton!! please prove her wrong!!! that's why this question was up before and before and before so yeah out of the goodness of my heart answer this freaking question!!! ily!<3

do you think she's pretty/hot/gorgeous??? which one??? don't say ugly please she'll take it seriously!!

2007-06-30 07:27:46 · 19 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2

I am an adult man who enjoys the company of women, and some women even enjoy my company. I like to be open and honest. I want to know if you think it is ok to date several women at the same time. I think it is, especially when sex beyond kissing and showing affection is not involved. I don't think it would be right to be "sleeping" with a women and dating others without her knowledge, unless of course she insisted on not knowing and was ok with it. So, is it ok to date several women at the same time as long as you are honest and open about that you enjoy their friendship, whether it be and intimate friendship or, i guess you could say "courting" to use the old fashion term. I'm not in a hurry to hop in to bed with any women and you could say I would prefer to proceed with caution in that regard. I prefer to strengthen emotional bonds first, so I really think it's important not to move too fast in any one direction. What are your thoughts?

2007-06-30 07:21:53 · 22 answers · asked by brad 4

[] Laura or Maxine from Family Matters?

2007-06-30 07:01:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I think hes cute to.Does he think im cute?does he have a secret crush on me?

2007-06-30 07:00:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous