Are girls really this mean and thoughless?....girls?????

Question

I'm a good looking guy and have always had long relationships
but...I'm short
so I was over at my g/f's house and here roommate, made a comment about not liking a guy on tv b/c he was short

and the day b/f another girl, a friend, said she would so sleep with a guy on tv but that he was short.

And I don't ever act offended... I just carry on joking and being nice...

I don't really have any kinda complex but it hurts deep down.

so.... are they saying it to test me...

are they not realizing that I might be offened and just voicing an opinion

or is it really the worst thing to a girl for a guy to be short... except all the girls who I have dated and who have loved me.


are women really this shallow.. it seems quiet common


I mean I wouldn't make fat person jokes if I was sitting next to a fat person...I though women were supposed to be considerate and though about what they said before speaking



had to vent...

thanks for your answers

I mean really...what's the big deal....even short girls seem to hate........and you know what..........they are short too....

do tall girls hate on their short girl friends too???

thanks

YOU ARE ALL SUCH GOOD PEOPLE...THANKS

Answer 1

who the f♥ cares how tall you are? if they do then they are idiots! im short too.. but no one ever says anything to me.. maybe cuz im a girl.. anyways, some girls are just haters.. those girls also seem to have nothin good goin for them.. so forget the roomie.. and everyone else.. your girl cares for you.. that's all that matters..

Answer 2

Sometimes, people just don't think about how their words or actions will affect other people. I don't know your gf or her roommate, but they may have just been talking, not even thinking consciously about making a joke about a short guy in front of a short guy. This happens more than you think. If they were testing you, that would be just plain mean and immature.

I don't think this means girls are shallow, but it often has to do with their own insecurities. Some girls might like tall guys because it makes them feel petite, if that makes sense. It helps to counteract her own insecurity.

At any rate, I think you should talk to your girlfriend about it. Just be honest and tell her that it sometimes hurts your feelings when jokes are made about guys of shorter stature. If she keeps doing it, don't date her anymore. Your significant other should never make you feel bad about yourself.

Answer 3

Wow...where to start, my daughter (20yrs.old) and myself (29&14!!) just read this and..."wow!" We can relate! As we are both "short" 5'1 & 5'2! But have had our share of relationships - and meeting the "other side", meaning- their friends, not ours, which is normally why the relationships ended, because of self-centered comments. Short tall fat skinny...it's deeper than that...shouldn't matter...what matters is that you, my dear, should not ever "go along with..." you should put your feelings forward...always...- many times growing up, I've noticed that there's always a leader...and many followers, -so, by putting your cards on the table (so to speak), you will see, which ones to delete in your life! Guarantee there are a few who are laughing and going along with the person who's making fun of someone, who feel the same as you, if not worse...but go along because they are lonely, and don't feel they fit in, in a more mature crowd... People who feel the need to down others, must feel pretty darn ugly inside...just look them right in the eye, and tell them so, and then say; Don't be hatin' !!! Sincerely, [e-mail]

Answer 4

I don;t know , this world seems to be very complicated. People look at people's looks a lot instead of what is inside. I personally know somebody who is teased because of her short height. i don't think it matters at all. No one is perfect. If a girl truly loved somebody she would like at that persons personality not looks. Looks never matter.
I am sorry but I didn't like the way you said, are women this shallow? because many questions like this relate to men and their ways. This has nothing to do with your question so I will stick to the topic. Looks don't matter, and people who judge people by their looks are very bad. Because, if you have short height than you may have extreme intelligence. If you have tall height, you may have bad discretion. Just like, judging on looks. hope I helped :)

Answer 5

My friend... I don't know how old you are; but you "Have No Idea" as to the depths of wickedness & hate SOME women will sink to.
I suggest that you just chalk this experience up to "Wisdom"; and move along.
If those girls really "Loved" you, I'd think that they would have put their brain into gear before they let loose of their tongues.
Best of Luck in the future. There's Someone out there for you !

Answer 6

I think you are SO overreacting. Obviously you have a self-esteem problem because girls seem to like you and you don't have problems getting a girlfriend. Maybe you as you feel short, you are only looking and paying attention to comments about short people, when maybe you are overlooking comments about tall, skinny, fat, bald, dumb people.

Now, if you want the comments to stop, don't be quiet and don't make a big fuss. Whenever a girl makes a comment like that, just laugh, look at her and ask, "so you mean you wouldn't like me?" as a joke, and keep teasing her about it, without losing your good humor. She'll feel really dumb 1) if she wanted to make you feel bad, she wouldn't be expecting you to make a joke out of it, or 2) if she didn't mean it, she'll explain the misunderstanding and will be more careful next time.

Answer 7

some girls are very self centered and thoughtless even when they become women. i am a woman and like you i would not make a fat or short joke if someone in the room was either.people are very thoughtless now a days. love yourself for who you are. not all women are shallow but many are.guys too can be this way.dont concern yourself over comments coming from shallow people.consider the source.

Answer 8

my best friend is almost a foot shorter then me. and shes 2 years older then me. (just had to tell u so u know i know how it is around someone shorter then myself) and FYI a lot of women shallow. and i know it hurts. i get teased for being tall. u just cant win. if ur tall if your short. it doesn't matter. u will get teased all the time. by women. let's face it. women r viscus. we can't help it. men r strong and women r viscus. if they do it again just leave. and just remember that not all women r like that.

Answer 9

The chick was just being rude to you. No not all women are like that. My cousin Dora is about 5'9, 5'10 and he boyfriend is only 5'6 so relax. Hell I'm 4'11.5 and actually perfer short guys because I do have to worry about running the risk of breaking my neck just trying to talk to them. It's not you it's her.

Answer 10

aww super cute im short haha
well i guess it depends on the girl.. look at that guy from the brady bunch.. he married someone taller than him && she never made any remarks about his height (at least not that i saw on the show My Fair Brady)... girls can be real bad at times.. maybe theyre just expressing an opinion without knowign theyre hurting u