My ex-girlfriend and I are still really close friends. The other day she was telling me that her new boyfriend "pleases her" more because he is bigger. This left me feeling a bit insecure and I was wondering if it is true that bigger is better?
2007-06-30 08:46:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going by what my wife says..NO...She's had bigger, she's had smaller....it's how you work it....
2007-06-30 08:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by road_runner1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that was not a nice thing of you ex to say, all girls know that is a touchy subject and I would personally never go there with a friend or especially an ex.
No size shouldn't matter if you care about a person, most orgasms come from being psychologically pleased on top of being physically pleased, that's why there are something around 20% of women dont get orgasms, its mostly psychological.
So anyways my main point is all that matters is that you know how to use what you have to work with and if all else fails for a girl for some reason there are always little tricks to please her, like toys for instince.
2007-06-30 15:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by wildcherry77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say the best answer would come from a girl... coz we are the ones who's experiencing it... based from experience... i had long relationship with a guy who had big penis and believe me i had to fake it all the time just because it hurts too much, i was so convincing he thought he was good at it my bad! i really cared about this guy but he just cant please me to make me come. then i had this bf who had a normal size one and he can make me come one after the other each time. to be honest its how you use it and not the size that matters. bigger penis sometimes really hurts and makes us sore...sometimes those who have bigger ones think it is enough and would leave other aspects to pleasuring dull.. its the performance babe that counts as well ;)
2007-07-01 09:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by angel_nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, no matter what people say I know for a fact bigger is better. There's a lot of hype about making your penis bigger with pills and surgery and stupid stuff, but don't listen to that crap. I wouldn't admit it in person but I've had some success with natural enlargement techniques like stretches. The reason I say I know bigger is better is because I gained a whole inch from doing the stretches and my girlfriend loves it!
2007-06-30 15:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes it does!
The bigger and fatter a mans wallet is the more satisfied the girl is!
If you meant his penis, not really... if she wants 6" give it to her twice.
The girl who really loves you, will love all of you without compairson no matter what size, shape or anything. The only thing you need to do is take time and make sure you listen to her and see that she is satisfied with sex which includes but is not limited to intercourse. I satisfy my wife more with my hands and mouth than I do with intercourse.
Every man should remember: If mama's happy, everybody's happy.
g-day!
2007-06-30 16:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kekionga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me SIZE does not come into the "act" 'cos when you are in a "position" all that counts is the excitement and enjoyment of the "act" What !! your boobs are too small, your bum is too large, etc. etc. everyone to thier own, the problem is the media make a big thing of it and TRY to influense (sure spelling wrong!) all. People in days gone by never gave a **** about it Go your own way. regards
2007-06-30 16:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it does !...sorta !!
WELL I CARE ABOUT THE PERSONALITY THE MOST !!
but what ur ex said was kinda harsh !!
like i no this girl who saw this guy (and he wanted to marry her)
but she wasnt too sure because of his body size !!he was way too skinny 4 her like an personality thing didnt really matter because all she was thinkin about was if she slept with him she mightened enjoy it as MUCH as if she slept with this hunk !!bt thats like some ppls not everyones like that some think that personality is more important !!
maybe ur girlfrieind dint really like u and preferred a guy whos bigga bt not everyone cares !!
but u should go to the gym alot !!it ll help !!
LOL!!
2007-06-30 16:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had great sex with a guy with a smallish penis and not so great sex with a guy who definitely had a large package. That being said, if all things are equal in the technique department, and this is about sex more than love, I'd opt for the larger penis. Besides the way it feels, for me there is something visually stimulating about a large penis.....oh wait, the same can be true for a smaller penis. I dunno, I just like good sex. :)
2007-06-30 15:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could only use that to please a girl then yes but there are sooo many other ways to keep us happy most men just don't bother. I say experiment if you find someone you love and trust then you can try different things don't be afraid to use more then just your body. there is more than one way to skin a cat as they say!! relax and enjoy***
2007-06-30 16:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by mumamia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive answered a similar question like this before & said it is a factor but with your situation I think that was really nasty of her to say that to you! but maybe she's lieing & trying to make you feel bad as she secretly still likes you. Whatever give her a break for her sheer rudeness.
2007-06-30 15:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by on-point 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its the motion in the ocean that counts! well from a girls point of view, it nevered mattered to me! Massive ones are too uncomfortable and doesnt make me enjoy sex cos i end up feeling sore rather than aroused!
2007-06-30 15:52:00 · answer #11 · answered by Sun Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋