I liked him for years,our relationship begun a month and a half ago.I knew he has a daughter from his previous marriage.Mom has custody.We started going out together.He started bringing his very-active-three year old daughter everywere,almost imposing her presence to me.We even had to sleep all three together.I told him I am not the motherlike woman, not even a child person,my life is too active,too demanding,too quick and I like it as it is.No room for children,specially if they are not mine,specially if they demand MY time.He did not understand,(I USED THE EXACT SAME WORDS).He kept trying to "impose her"to me.Yesterday I asked him to leave my house, take her with him and forget about this relationship.(that said in the most polite and clear way possible).He still says this is not how it meant to be,that the child cannot always be with him,that he can make it work for both,as if he have not heard a word of what I said!Why people do not seem to understand simple words?What is wrong?
2007-03-20
16:22:08
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