Im one of those people that get whistled at everyday, people tell me im beautiful and my [ersonality is how u say sweet and To nice.But its hard for me to believe those things when this guy 'Robert' ignores me! I like him and told him threw a letter but Im to Shy to actully talk to him. He dosent even Look at me, i think. How can I get him to like me! What am I doing wrong!
2007-03-20 16:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by Kera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be shy!! I used to be extremely shy, and guys don't go for that. A guy I liked for a while finally asked me on a date, and towards the end of it he say, "wow, to be honest I thought this would be boring because you wouldn't talk, but your actually really cool." I couldn't believe it. Being pretty isn't enough, you need to challenge the guy and not act so desperate for him (and I've been there done that so I know). Just be yourself. Make the same crude jokes you would in front of your close friends around him and he will love it because he'll see you as real, and not just some girl whose super quiet and akward around him. I mean if you can't talk to him, how are you going to date him? Best advise: Open up and be yourself.
2007-03-20 16:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by LostAdviseGiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because some people think you are pretty, doesn't mean everyone will...and your personality may be pleasing to some, but nothing special to others...that's just the way of the world.
If you want to see if this guy may like you, then talk to him. Don't be "too shy" or you're just going to allow yourself to miss out...the longer you wait, the higher chances some other girl will talk to him and he'll talk (nicely) back.
2007-03-20 23:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, everyone has their own likes and preferences. You may be a very pretty woman, however you arent the person he is looking for. You have made your feelings known to him and he has not responded, stop there. If you become over zealous you may push him away. The ball has been placed in his court so let him run with it. In the end, what is meant to be will be.
2007-03-20 23:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by MissFireandRescue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think ur too hot for him and be really shy. He might also be crazy and though, everyone has different tastes in women, even the "hottest girl" according to most people sometimes is not very attractive to certain individuals.
2007-03-20 23:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks only go so far. It can also work against you, as many guys can get intimidated by gorgeous looking girls. If you like him, make the effort to get to know him, get a small friendship going. You'll never know what could be unless you try.
2007-03-20 23:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try so hard. Soon you will have to beat the guys in the head to leave you alone so take it easy. there is nothing wrong with having good friends.
There is nothing bad about saying hi to someone is there?
say hi to him just
once.
I dare you!
Have fun being young!
2007-03-20 23:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by sapboi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR DOING NOTHING WRONG. JUST LIKE ON HERE (YAHOO ANSWERS) EVERYONE HAS THERE OWN OPINION. WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN SETS OF EYES, AND WE ALL SEE DIFFERENTLY. SO JUST B/C LOTS OF PEOPLE SAY UR BEAUTIFUL CUTE WTEVR THAT DOESN'T MEAN EVERYONE IN THE WORLD IS GOING TO THINK THAT SAME THING. BESIDES...BOYS AND MEN LIKE TO PLAY "HARD TO GET" ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY KNOW FOR SURE U LIKE THEM. YOU SHOULDN'T OF TOLD HIM. ALWAYS LET THE BOY COME TO YOU...
2007-03-20 23:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so guys don't ask you out and you're no longer beautiful or sweet? just because a guy is physically attracted to you doesn't mean he wants to date you. for whatever reason, who cares. it just means he's not the guy for you.
2007-03-20 23:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably intimidated and don't think he'd stand a chance. You need to find a way to let him know he has a chance.
2007-03-20 23:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well some guys r intimidated they dont think they have a chnace with u or u could just not be his type doesnt mean u dont look good it just means u arent what he's lookin for.........
2007-03-20 23:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋