my bf has a my space and i look on it and i saw that he was saying sexy thing to woman,what i cant get is that when i ask him to put me and are baby on his layout he said no,and i have him on my layout i feel so bad it hurt me to see the thing that the man i love was saying to them and he does not even say things like that to me...he make me feel like iam not sexy i have 3 kids and i am only 110 and iam 5'1,then what hurts me more is that he was sending email to a girl telling her that he was going to go out to see her,i work 10hr a day and pay all the bill and the food and take care of the kids even when he calls me at work to tell me that he cant take care of the baby and i get off of work to get the baby i dont know i feel soooo bad i do so much way do that....i have a my space and i dont even do that ,its been 4yr with him i just dont know anymore,i dont know how to tell him what i saw or how to say it...can i get some help..
2007-03-20 16:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by mami 04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a user and a looser.
stop having babies with him and kick his useless butt out. if he has to work for a living maybe he won't have so much time to spend on myspace!!!
2007-03-20 16:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know i'm in a similar situation, when you give too much and dont get anything in return. Hope u don't mind but he sounds like a jerk to me.How the hell is a man w 3 kids have time for myspace? (assuming he's the dad). He's not giving you the respect you deserve I think he might be cheating. You should really sit down and analyze things and see if you want to be with a guy who sometimes doesn't even want to babysit so that you can work and pay for the food he eats. Tell him what you saw on his page, if i were you I wouldnt even ask him if hes cheating, he'll deny it to death anyway. Trust your gut and don't let him sweet talk you into believing him. If your not ready to leave him don't but stop doing things for him that he doesn't do for you. I say start thinking about how you wan't to spend the rest of your life and most of all look beautiful, that is the best revenge.
2007-03-20 23:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by blackmamba81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely hard to love someone and not receive that loyalty and honesty in return. It seems like he wont see it no matter how much you tell him you can 1. get couple therapy or 2. figure out that he wont change without any professional help and is he isnt willing then let go. He is blinded and isnt appreciating what he has. People can sometimes live a double life online, but you have to see that that says a lot of his unconsciuos wishes and how far he would go is given the opportunity...sorry...hope everything works out.
2007-03-20 23:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by strawberryshortk86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men will be men!! im sorry to hear that but the best thing to do is confront him. Sit him down and tell him calmly what you saw and what you think about if if he starts to get mad and yell at you he must be hidding something. now my q's are is that what you want your kids to see for him to treat you like this? If you have a girl she is gonna think it is okay for a man to treat her like that and if you have boys they are gonna think it is okay for them to do that to a girl!! not a good thing to teach you kids. That will make them suffer in there relationships. you may still be petite after having kids any there is a saying "you dont know what you have intill you loose it" think about what you want in life and if thats the way you want to live it. good luck. :)
2007-03-20 23:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋