Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

We're close friends and I know he likes me because he tells me he finds me attractive regularly. He also flirts with me whenever we're together. However despite my best efforts, nothing seems to happen. I'm not quite sure what I find so sexy about him - he's not especially attractive but he just seems so alluring and makes me feel something I never feel when we're apart.
But sometimes I can't help but think he is only using me and sees me as another girl. It's not that he acts in a way to make me believe that, but he does have a reputation, and when he was with his ex, he would try and make a move on me regularly, despite me telling him I wasn't interested.
I know it's foolish to say someone has changed but I truly believe he isn't the same person as he was then and when I'm with him he makes me feel like the most important person in the world, like he would do anything to make me smile. I'm just so confused? Any ideas? Please, they would be more than welcome!

2007-03-18 10:30:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 10:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 10:30:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has 2 guys who both like her at the same time and she doesn't want to be with either of them b/c of the issue that this created. So me and her came up with solution to get these two guys to move on.

2007-03-18 10:29:15 · 12 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5

me and my girlfriend are very close, i think, and have been together for only almost a year but i love her and she always tells me she loves me. sometime last year, when we were only together for like a month, she told me she liked another guy. she said she didnt think it was a big deal because we wernt together that long. once she told me she liked this other guy she talkd to me alot less on the computer and stoped asking me to hang out and hung out with him instead. during the next few days i was on vacation and barley spoke to her during the day so i am clueless to what she did with him. one day i even saw a text messege on her cell phone that said something like 'i was so tempted to ask you after we hooked up' from this guy and she responded saying 'im such a tease'. she swears that she never kissed him and i dont remember if the messege said exactly that so i dont know what to think. after hours of begging and talking i finally convinsed her to chose me over this other guy. she later told me that she only liked him because he was 'hot'. although this incident tore me apart emosionaly i remained in our relationship because i loved her (acording to her she only 'liked' me at the time) and believed her when she told me it wouldnt happen again. less than a month later she told me she still loved this other guy she liked alot before she met me. during this time i wittnessed her go in a parked car with him, both in the front seats, and remain in the car for like 20min. she says that all they did was talk but i dont know what to think. once again, after begging her to take only me she again promised nothing would happen again and apologized. i again believed her, but about one month later she told me that she thought one of my friends was 'hot'. this made me mad and upet and i told her i wanted out of the relationship. this time she begged me to stay and got her friends to tell me to keep her until i decided to give her one more chance. although nothing has happend since the last incident (about 6 months ago) i am always afraid she will do it again especially because she hangs out with so many different guys (alot more guys than girls) and some of them have reputations for using girls for sex. i asked her to stop talking to some of the guys that i thought woukd make an attempt to get with her and she has but idk if shes lying or not. she is also talking about goin to florida with some girls for a week and i dont feel comfortable with it and i told her that but she said shes going anyway. i love this girl to death and she tells me she loves me all the time but i dont trust her when it comes to other guys. i always have flashbacks and dreams about what happened in the past or think that shes doing something when she doesnt answer her cell phone. another think im not comfortable with is that 2 of her best friends have hooked up with other guys behind their boyfriends backs and im afraid that she will do the same, although she swears she wont. i dont think i can get over this girl and i think id be even more upset than i already am if i left her. please help me. i need to know the truth that she may be hiding from me and i need to find a way that i can trust her around other guys and believe her when she tells me she would never cheat on me. thank you so much for reading this whole thing and helping me resolve this issue.

2007-03-18 10:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i let her see my mp3 but hen when i try to get it back she plays around and wont do so till its time to leave. then also she'll be grabin my butt and sayin its juicy. she will also try to sit next to me too (real close). other times shell be mean to me. im confused.

2007-03-18 10:27:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you like in a girl????????

2007-03-18 10:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by [kiki]licious 1

iv been with my guy for 2 1/2 yrs now, but it seems he just doesnt ever say he wants to be around me or anything, he doesnt even pay attention to me anymore? what to do to make him want me more?

2007-03-18 10:27:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so there's this guy that i like and he likes me, well he says he loves me, but he won't ask me out cuz he's a grade ahead of me and we hardly ever see each other. so should i wait til next year, or should i forget about him?????

2007-03-18 10:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by Blondie 2

just say the way and how you do it

2007-03-18 10:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

you know i luve you .i don't why ur madd at me but i still love you Ian

2007-03-18 10:25:53 · 2 answers · asked by mizz.puertorico 2

I think a girl likes, Here's why. She had me meet her mom and her aunt. She says to me that I'm very sophisticated. She has taken numerous photos of her with a friend with my phone. Previously she's asked if I had a girlfriend, I've said no.

So what should I do?

2007-03-18 10:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyone around me, my friends especially, are falling in love and it makes me even more depressed because thats exactly what i want to do. Everything i want to do or want to have, people around me are getting it immediatley and thats what upsets me. I just want to fall in love...will it just happen or do i have to be prepared..or is it a sign i'm not ready to fall in love...or is this just really dumb?

2007-03-18 10:25:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 10:25:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 10:23:55 · 3 answers · asked by kels 2

so i was iwth this boy. we fell for each other at a dance. we started talking and then went out. kinda spur of the moment. we went out ofr a week. then i broke u with him b/c i was paranoid that he was gonna break-up with me. And he liked other girls... we haven't spoken face-to-face since.. just on myspace. I told him i regret it and I know he's pretty much over me.. and has been 4 awhile... but want to win him back. does anyone know how I can do that?

2007-03-18 10:23:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna hear details maybe i'll put it in a book i am working on i don't know but i want hear how your first love inlfuenced your life. Your intimate relations. How you felt when u were with that person also if u still see them. Or wished u still did. put fake names if u want.

Thanks,
MiSsy A

2007-03-18 10:22:51 · 6 answers · asked by missy A 2

When your bf or gf asks you to buy them things that cost hundreds of $$$ (not necessities but designer stuff, high end phones, jewelry and stuff), just because they know/think you can afford them, aren't they a gold digger? Do they equate spending with love, or do they just see an easy mark? Maybe they're just not used to being treated well? I think the asking is pretty tacky in itself, and a red flag. Or is this just the way relationships go when you're the more succesful partner? And how about this - someone who told me "we need a break" called me like 2 weeks later ( a week before her bday...) saying she missed me. I took her out to dinner the day before her bday and she asked me several times during the meal where was her gift. She was dead serious, and pouted that I was the only one she would get a gift from (attempting to guilt trip me I guess). What do you think about all this?

2007-03-18 10:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by TJ 3

I went out on a date with this guy Friday nite (it's Sunday afternoon now)and I think we had a good time. Went to his place and we're supposed to watch movie but ended up
making out and got a little physical. We talked for quite a while,I'm not sure whether I kinda intimidated him
with myself and the stories about my traveling&cultural experiences. At the end of the nite, I said I had a good time
and he said he had a great time and great conversation, and I told him I hope to see him again and he said definitely.
I told him to call me. Well guys, I'm really into this guy and want to call him first, but I'm not sure
whether it's too soon. Should I wait? Do you guys think he's interested in me as well?

2007-03-18 10:17:40 · 12 answers · asked by miss w 2

We are both beyond our 20s and are looking for something serious and long term. She is basicaly a really nice person I would normaly want to spend time with and get to know better. I even know for a fact she is very interested.

But her face is not what I consider pretty. Her body is not bad but the face is the most important to me. It's what you look at when you communicate with someone and it's what you look at every morning.

Can you build a lasting ralationship with someone you don't find physically attractive?

2007-03-18 10:16:04 · 28 answers · asked by stupid_dangerous_thoughts 1

I know I know what most of you are going to say.. "Just wait and it will come" I am 25 not in a rush to get married or any commitments until the right one comes along.. but I am just sick of the men who attempt to come into my life... None of them are the right ones.. I get turned off if they try to sleep with me right off the bat.. when they know i am not that kind of woman. These games and going home alone is getting tiring.. and then I see happy couples where you can just feel their love for eachother.. and I wonder "When am I going to have that passion"???

2007-03-18 10:15:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 10:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by kels 2

im thinking of going to a pizza place...its going to be a double date because my best friend is going 2.

2007-03-18 10:12:45 · 1 answers · asked by alien_domination 2

i had to leave town for an nhs convention 4 hours away from home for two days. when i was talking to my bf on the way back home, making plans to see eachother when i got back, he told me that he was on the verge of tears from missing me so much, and that he wanted to go to sleep until i got to his house just to make the time without me pass more quickly.

how sweet is this?

ps. if you have any cute stories like this, please share!

2007-03-18 10:12:23 · 14 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3

Guy i know has asked me to go and stay with him over night, been seeing him for the last 16 months(you could say we are, just bed buddies, no strings)its the first time he has asked me to go and stay with him, he usually comes down every few months as he lives about 3 hours drive away. Should i go have fun for the night ? Need some answers please before Wednesday !

2007-03-18 10:12:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Basically me and my 1st real love have been broken up for a yearmonths. I went on with my life for a while and did not contact her. She has had a bf for about 6 months or so now so that complicates things. The problem is she kept calling, texting and emailing me at work which I ignored. She then would leave me messages crying so I made the mistake of calling her. She was saying how she thought she thinks she made the wrong decision. I told her I dont want her to feel bad and we should move on. The following wkend she calls drunk saying how she loves me wanting to hook up and everything. This got my hopes up and we spoke the next day but she acted as if nothing happened. Saying she is happy w/ her bf and it wouldnt be fair to him as there has been no problems in there relationship for her to breakup with him. I am so confused and feel I am back to square one. How would you proceed? I care about her but cant let my heart get broken time and time again.

2007-03-18 10:11:34 · 18 answers · asked by yeeeehaw4 2

it's like we're more than friends...we talk about deep stuff
and he seriously has reason to suspect that i REALLLLLY like him...but before letting it all loose...is there a way i could sneakily find out how HE feels about me w/o letting him know i like him?!?????

2007-03-18 10:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never had a "serouis" bf. But I really want one...But, I have a hard time getting comfertable woth someone..Plus,I hate talking on the phone so how would i solve that problem? haha I know this is weird..and I am only 13 and never even kissed a boy... no rush too..but still..

p.s
Going to be in HS inlike 2 months so...yeah..lol

and don't say "wow you are really young you don't need to worry about that stuff" PLEASE!

2007-03-18 10:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by Cindy 2

I`m feeling a bit confused about a guy so would like your opinions please.He gave me his number last week and we had been texting and calling each other.He said he really liked me and didn`t care about the fact i have a son as he wanted to take me out at least once to get to know me.

He then text me on friday and said that he is interested in me and if i`m not interested in him then just let him know.He text me again later on and asked if he could call me soon but my battery went dead and he didn`t call,i sent him a text the following day and explained what happened and he didn`t reply.

My mum saw him last night in his work and got talking to him but she said he wasn`t his usuall chatty self and he told her he`d give me a call.He then text agin and asked if he could call me soon and i said yes,he didn`t call.So i just sent a text today and said if he`s not interested it`s totally fine and not to worry about it and he hasn`t even replied.Has he lost interest do you think,help??

2007-03-18 10:11:10 · 11 answers · asked by onlyme 5

Physically, emotionally, and/or mentally.

2007-03-18 10:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Young P 1