When your bf or gf asks you to buy them things that cost hundreds of $$$ (not necessities but designer stuff, high end phones, jewelry and stuff), just because they know/think you can afford them, aren't they a gold digger? Do they equate spending with love, or do they just see an easy mark? Maybe they're just not used to being treated well? I think the asking is pretty tacky in itself, and a red flag. Or is this just the way relationships go when you're the more succesful partner? And how about this - someone who told me "we need a break" called me like 2 weeks later ( a week before her bday...) saying she missed me. I took her out to dinner the day before her bday and she asked me several times during the meal where was her gift. She was dead serious, and pouted that I was the only one she would get a gift from (attempting to guilt trip me I guess). What do you think about all this?
2007-03-18 10:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by TJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WTF ur you talking about
2007-03-18 10:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate~bunny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You KNOW the answer! If you seriously want to know test the person. Go out and do FREE stuff, ask them if they want to go walk around the park, museum, or watch some dvd's at home and see how she reacts...Even then, say youre in a bind and ask for something small, if they give you ANY type negative reaction, there ya go! You should already know the answer with the b'day situation. You are not supposed to EXPECT someone to get you something for your b'day. So you dont ask what they got for you before you even received it! Sweetie go to the next, leave her alone...does she even have a job? Never mind that, like i said you KNOW the answer and find someone who appreciates you and not your $
2007-03-18 10:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by vanillasweetnes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationships, gifts should not be as important as the relationship itself. Yes, she's a gold digger, sorry to tell you that.
2007-03-18 10:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by love 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think that your gf is a gold digger. You should talk to her about it, and ask her if she is in this relationship for love, or for money.
2007-03-18 10:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are exactly talking about the profile of a gold digger ...
It's so obvious ..you don't even have to ask ..!!
Stop showing to people how successful u r ..just keep it in the low ..until u find someone who loves u for who u really r ..!!
2007-03-18 10:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might just be gold digger
it is esay to become a gold digger a good friend would just wait intil you gave them something and graseful for not askyou for thing in regilar basis
2007-03-18 10:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by fewq5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deffinitely.....get rid of him/her whoever this is....you don't want someone asking you for things, if it was for lights, rent or something, and you are really close, that's okay, but, for them to be asking for these things, they really have alot of nerve and you don't need someone like that, because they will keep on and on, and who cares if you have money, you want someone who loves and cares for YOU, not your money...and it's up to you to decide if you like or love them enough where you buy them things, when not asked...they are losers, get rid of them, I have had guys like that with me, and was stupid and thought they loved me, to only find out they were after my money...but, now, I'm grown and have kids and they are who gets my money now, lol, but, you are the one that should buy the things out of the goodness of your heart, not because they ask for it, also, Has he/she bought you anything, or if they don't have money, made you a card, done something special, like pick a flower, something, there are so many things you can do to show you care for one another without spending money, and whether you have it or not, it's yours, and until you are married, which if you are getting married, make sure you get a pre-nup if you have alot, but, if you are just better off than some, don't flaunt that you have money, and meet the right person, and get to know them, and do little things for them, and then when you know they are the right person and they don't know you have money, then you know you have the real keeper...get rid of them now....spend it on someone who truly cares, because if they are asking you for things that arn't necessary, they are no good to begin with, why waste your time...there are plenty of others out there who will do the same, it's just up to you to find the one that isn't out there for the money, but, friendship, love, ect...that's who you want...but, dump them now...good luck, but, also, do it gently, don't want them coming back trying to get revenge....hope this helps
2007-03-18 10:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but I think you know the answer to your question. Yes, gold digger all the way.
2007-03-18 10:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by karen p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAG...
Dumb classless Gold Digger Warning ...
Dump her...
2007-03-18 10:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop bragging about your money and you wont attract gold diggers. Dahhh.
2007-03-18 10:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely gold digger
2007-03-18 10:24:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋