Guy i know has asked me to go and stay with him over night, been seeing him for the last 16 months(you could say we are, just bed buddies, no strings)its the first time he has asked me to go and stay with him, he usually comes down every few months as he lives about 3 hours drive away. Should i go have fun for the night ? Need some answers please before Wednesday !
2007-03-18 10:12:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the good answers. Your right nothing to loose, just not use to him saying go to stay with him.
2007-03-18 10:29:56 · update #1
Only you know what you feel, go with your instincts.
2007-03-18 10:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you have been bed buddies for the last 16months with no strings.... Why not go??? If he has been to you a fair few times its only right that you should go stay over with him occasionally. Unless you have some reservations as to why you shouldn't go...?
2007-03-18 10:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by sunflora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have fun as bed buddies last 16 months .Do not understand the predicament.
2007-03-18 10:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Wisdom-of-life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it is a good idea. whats the big deal. or do you think you will feel attachted? if you think you will feel that way and want to just keep it a bed buddy think then dont go. but if you want to know more about him and think its a good idea.
my take is, if you have a bed buddy thing, then you wouldnt want to get attached and go spend then night or meet his friends or anything keep it the way it is. but if you are growing feelings for him then keep it going but make sure he feels the same way. if you dont feel that way then dont go over or he will think you want more....good luck.
2007-03-18 10:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, make sure you put a hat on it though. You may not be his only "bed buddy".
2007-03-18 10:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be his way of moving things on to the next stage so go for it..what have you got to lose!
2007-03-18 12:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're ready to attach those strings, go for it! Have fun!
2007-03-18 10:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...You have already done the deed so whats the problem?
2007-03-18 10:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes GO FOR IT
Have Fun ..
Lucky you .. ;) ;)
2007-03-18 10:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye go and enjoy yourself your hurting no one.
2007-03-18 10:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by oobedoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋