Singles & Dating - 14 March 2007

After loosing my house and land, me and my 11 year old daughter moved in with my boyfriend. Things were going great till about a month ago. He is a retired marine. He is very quite and doesn't like anyone to know his business. He has some lady friends that call. Most of them were in the marines with him or know him from there. 3 weeks ago a lady from our area called and left a message on the phone. She said she was just calling to chat. When I asked him about her he wanted to know why I asked and I said she left you a message on the phone. He didn't answer my question of who she was. Of course I snuck the phone number and went on line and got an address, and she lives not far from us. He also has her cell number in his wallet. I havn't said anything else to him since I asked who she was. He even added up how much I have cost him since I moved in. He has for the last 3 weeks - acted like he is mad and wont talk and doesn't tell me bye when he leaves or tell me he loves me. Any advice?

2007-03-14 06:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by alisonking74 1

I have no idea what to do my friend really likes him,and he is a really great guy and he is hot and the great thing about it is that i just broke up with my boyfriend and looking for a new cute guy but still I don't think I can do this to my friend,so help me out guys,before he ask's me out again!

2007-03-14 06:56:08 · 13 answers · asked by angle 2

2007-03-14 06:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by sixsgm 4

I have just been trying to figure out a guy's actions. Not long after I met him nine months ago he started acting differently towards me like turning red in the face, watching me a lot, trying to talk to me more (kind of shyed away from him), i thought he was my secret pal for a while. I guess he meant just to be friends and not romantic. He has been very confusing because he is a friendly guy.

2007-03-14 06:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

2007-03-14 06:54:53 · 4 answers · asked by fai_zal13 1

I'm not asking you to read all of this it's WAY TO LONG i only want you to read ONE!!! I DON'T CARE WHICH ONE YOU PICK

So I’m a senior in high school going through a lot of stress right now. I feel like I’m really seeing my friends true colors shine and they aren’t shining to brightly to say the least. I have written 3 different situations that I am in right now!. ALL OF THEM VERY UPSETING! You can call me a drama queen if you want you can be rude about this whole thing or you can be polite about it I don’t really care I’m not asking you to read all four of them NOT BY ANY MEANS YOU DO NOT HAVE TO READ ALL 4!! That would take much to long but I beg of you to at least read ONE PLEASE and give me some sort-of advice on it! PLEASE! I really am upset. This has been upsetting me for awhile I come home crying almost every night now. I don’t know what to do anymore!!

AGAIN THIS IS VERY LONG BUT I'M ONLY ASKING YOU TO READ ONE OF MY 3 SITUATIONS!

2007-03-14 06:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1

any ideas. its very frustrating. i feel like im letting good relationships slip through my fingertips or potential ones. i dont go out much now as a result. usually when i do get some courage im let down. hasnt done much for my confidence.

2007-03-14 06:53:43 · 8 answers · asked by j 2

did you regret it and if you were to turn back time what age would it be?

2007-03-14 06:52:45 · 36 answers · asked by ...x...sxy ting...x... 2

my b/f of a year broke up w me 2 weeks ago, he said he still has major feelings for me,and he loves me to death, but he dosnt want a relationship,because its too stressful...but he suggested being friends with benifits....idk wat to do....we have hooked up 3 times since we broke up...and he still dosnt want a relationship with me....what the hell!!!??? plus he rubbed it in my face two days ago that "its been 3 days since ive been laid,im dien!!" thats wat he said to me..is he trying to make me jelous?? y would someone u love put u threw sooo much hurt...?

2007-03-14 06:52:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 06:51:40 · 16 answers · asked by sixsgm 4

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) A little chubby
e) Fat

I am d and I like girls that are b, c, or d.

2007-03-14 06:51:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im having a bit of a problem, i am an 18 yr old girl who is attracted to older men (usually 3-15 yrs older). Im currently seeing a 28 yr old, but am starting to rethink the relationship because of all the **** i have gotten from friends and family because of the age gap. i am attracted to older males both mentally and physically and have been my entire life, but now that im starting to get serious with them i have been encountering a lot of problems. why am i attracted to older men? is it healthy? and if it isnt, how can i change?

2007-03-14 06:51:13 · 16 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2

2007-03-14 06:50:23 · 21 answers · asked by CARLY 1

2007-03-14 06:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by Mr Clean 2

I am trying to find out if this bloke fancies my girlfriend (well ex girlfriend but we live in the same house still). She has known him for a while and I think she tells him private stuff about our relationship. I did the naughty thing and read her diary and it had stuff in there about this bloke asking her questions like if she is definately moving out and if it's over between us. She also put that he wanted to know if she was ready for a new relationship and she could do loads better than me! She talks about him a lot and I think she really likes him. She put that they flirt a lot too. We have had an argument about it and she told me she did like him. Don't get me wrong she isn't a sl-t or anything and she does deserve better than me. But I can't get this out my head, does he fancy her or not???

2007-03-14 06:49:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

What one should do wen one has to take very bold decision and is not able to do but at the same time thinking and thinking what to do and delaying the decision

2007-03-14 06:48:50 · 3 answers · asked by pizza 1

hanging arond bf and he always kicks her and pulls her hair out
But she go back to him all the time wat should i do

2007-03-14 06:48:02 · 5 answers · asked by fishlover 1

Would you date a boy who has the name Krissie. That is my name and i think it keeps some girls away because it sounds so girly

2007-03-14 06:47:29 · 41 answers · asked by sk8erdude89 1

woooo...confidence boost :D

2007-03-14 06:46:53 · 21 answers · asked by somegirl 3

i think i'm getting bammed up. check my last question. do u think i am??

2007-03-14 06:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1

I need help. I'm very insecure about MYSELF. I know my girlfriend will not cheat on me. I'm confident that she loves me. I don't try to control her and I never will. I just can't get over my insecurities. I've had a bad childhood and I find it hard to talk to be open with my closest friends. It really puts a strain on my relationships. I want nothing more in the world than to be open, positive, funny, and consolable, but I feel that it's impossible to have those qualities because I'm too insecure. It really is a self-centered way of thinking. I wish I could just change it, but it is an issue that comes up over and over again. I told my girlfriend that I'm afraid that I'm boring and uninteresting. I don't have many friends and since I work full time and go to college, it's hard to get a hobby. How can I work on this bad aspect of myself. I love my girlfriend and her 4 year old daughter, but I feel like my insecurities may rub off on them. I don't want that to happen. HELP

2007-03-14 06:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What gets your motor running apart from the obvious things? Seeing a nice back or chest and hearing a nice deep voice gets me going every time!

2007-03-14 06:45:56 · 22 answers · asked by fallenangel 4

my girlfriend doesn't really like to have "relations" with me because i hurt her. i'm larger then most people so i guess i understand. is there anything that she can do? excersise? something, anything?

2007-03-14 06:45:42 · 2 answers · asked by BT_HMS is my messenger id 4

Cha so I've had some things going on with my teacher outside of school....10th grade...whatcha think he is 24 im 16?

2007-03-14 06:45:26 · 13 answers · asked by Brie 1

if i want a date and not a one nighter?

2007-03-14 06:45:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend told me that he is thinking about working for one of his ex-flings (that he still talks to on MySpace by the way).
It's a bar and he wants to work as a bouncer, once a week, for extra cash.
I stated to him that it makes me feel uncomfortable for a couple of reasons. One, he used to hook up with her and they still maintain communication with each other. For two, its at a bar, where there is a lot of crazy stuff happening. He is trying to get his life in order so, I am a little apprehensive about that in general. My woman's intuition is very strong and has never steered me wrong, and it is telling me "HECK NO!" I am wondering what to do. He says that it is only a job and that I have nothing to worry about. I think otherwise.

2007-03-14 06:44:46 · 4 answers · asked by Deni 1

Ok, so I'm a shy 16 year old girl with no boyfriend, and as far as I know, no one likes me! How can I get one?

2007-03-14 06:44:22 · 3 answers · asked by Amber 5

first off, women keep saying looks aren't important to them but that's not true. if a guy is ugly, women will not be attracted to him nomatter what his personality is like. if a guy is average looking women won't bother to get to know him unless they're brought together somehow or if he has some sort of alpha male status(is popular, or is talented at something). but when it comes to how women react to guys they don't know, it's all about looks. if a guy who looks like chris richardson or blake from A-Idol hits on a girl, she'll give him a chance. however if a guy who looks like Phil does it, the girl would get creeped out and tell him off. and here's what's sick. if a guy looking like Sanjaya him on a girl(lets say in her mid 20s) she'll probably be nice(he's a kid!). i know guys are attracted to good looks, but i haven't met a guy who would tell a girl off for hitting on him. how come women see nothing wrong with it when it's them?

2007-03-14 06:43:54 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2

I've been in this relationship for 40 months. On a scale from 1-10 how attractive he is 6.4, how sweet he is 4.9, how much im happy with him 7, how happy im happy with the sex 3, how much im comfortable with him 9. I would liek to just be friends but i know once we endthe relationship he wont want that. When he is angry he is an abusive Azzhole. He complains about not getting sex alot and ALL i ask for him to do so that he can get it the amount of time he wants is to be nice sweet and romantic, the last time he bought me sumthin was in OCTOBER!!!! The other day i asked for 1 pack of gum and he didnt get it for me. All he cares about is getting puzzy and his new car.AM I WRONG to not want to be in the relationship anymore? OR am i wrong to ask him to be sweet nice and romantic inorder for him to get sex he amount of time he wants. I go to school full time and work and he doesnt do any of those so of course he always finds time to bother me AND we dont even have a palce to have sex

2007-03-14 06:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by Lexis 2

i have a hugee problem....
me and one of my best friends(girl) and this guy(that i like) were going to do a project but he doesnt even have the book that we need so we said that we couldnt make a video in one weekend, so me and my friend,(girl), are going to do a different project that we can get done in time and the guy is now mad at me for ditcing him. i sent him a text message saying that i would help him if he need it because i felt bad but he got his cell stolen so he couldnt read it. now he is really mad at me, but not at my friend. and he wont even talk to me so i couldnt tell him about my text message. does anybody have any advice...IM DESPERATE!!!
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2007-03-14 06:43:26 · 11 answers · asked by aeiorjklsdjf 2