why do women think they're not as judgemental as men?

Question

first off, women keep saying looks aren't important to them but that's not true. if a guy is ugly, women will not be attracted to him nomatter what his personality is like. if a guy is average looking women won't bother to get to know him unless they're brought together somehow or if he has some sort of alpha male status(is popular, or is talented at something). but when it comes to how women react to guys they don't know, it's all about looks. if a guy who looks like chris richardson or blake from A-Idol hits on a girl, she'll give him a chance. however if a guy who looks like Phil does it, the girl would get creeped out and tell him off. and here's what's sick. if a guy looking like Sanjaya him on a girl(lets say in her mid 20s) she'll probably be nice(he's a kid!). i know guys are attracted to good looks, but i haven't met a guy who would tell a girl off for hitting on him. how come women see nothing wrong with it when it's them?

and lets not forget that guys find most girls attractive, while girls find most guys unattractive. and they are creeped out by any guy who isn't attractive and doesn't have the 'cute boy' look.

Answer 1

Mature women do not do that - girls do. I have never been rude to a guy that was interested in me - but I have had guys be total jerks to me. My bf is not some total stud nor does he make a lot of $ - but I love him because we have a lot in common and have a good time together.

Answer 2

I'm waaay more judgemental than most people I know, male or female. And I think you're making a gross generalization about women not dating ugly guys. I've dated guys who others throught were ugly, but I found them hot. There isn't a universal idea of 'ugly'.

I think Brad Pitt and David Beckham are pretty nasty looking, but Kevin Spacey and Robin Williams really turn me on. My idea of a sexy guy isn't their looks, it's their confidence and how they carry themselves. And older is *always* sexier to me, which is probably why my hubby is 12 years older than me.