my b/f of a year broke up w me 2 weeks ago, he said he still has major feelings for me,and he loves me to death, but he dosnt want a relationship,because its too stressful...but he suggested being friends with benifits....idk wat to do....we have hooked up 3 times since we broke up...and he still dosnt want a relationship with me....what the hell!!!??? plus he rubbed it in my face two days ago that "its been 3 days since ive been laid,im dien!!" thats wat he said to me..is he trying to make me jelous?? y would someone u love put u threw sooo much hurt...?
2007-03-14 06:52:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does not love you. If he really loved you he would not have broken up with you. He is just using you for sex. Stop seeing him and when you get over him being gone find someone that won't treat you like that.
2007-03-14 06:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you have a player on your hands and he is playing you very well. if he loved you he would not just want to be friends with benefits. like having his cake and eating it too. how many other girls is he playing this game with? ever think that is the reason he does not want a relationship full time with you?
dump the loser...friends with benefits...what a piece of crap!! and what is worse is that you are going for it. wake up and smell the roses. there are diseases out there I am sure you do not want to get. and besides...what benefit are you getting out of it? if you just want sex when he is in the mood and that makes you happy, then go for it. If you want a relationship, wake up and realize this is not the guy!
be cool...
2007-03-14 14:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you love him and he loves to have sex with you. If you can handle being used like that, then keep it going. If you want more than sex, then you need to move on. This guy is only interested in sex with you. The hopes of a relationship are not going to come into reality.
2007-03-14 13:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by dskillz27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a Liar and he doesn't Love u .. If he truly loves he will not leave u or use just for sex.. Sorry but thats the reall truth and it hurts .. Best think u can do is leave this asshole and find some who loves u and respects u .. Good Luck
2007-03-14 14:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he "loved" you, he wouldn't have broken up with you and expect that in return. I know from experiance. Only it was my husband!!! We're separated - because of what he did - and he still tries to get my in bed!! I'd tell him, from a womans view that you can't just have sex with him "it's too stressful" because women associate that with love. It's either all or nothing.
2007-03-14 14:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your man loved you he wouldn't want to break up..If he doesn't want to be in a relationship then move on and find someone who will love you unconditionally and want to be with you...Some guys are just plain immature and don't know what they want..If he loved you or had feelings for you he wouldn't ask you to be his friend with benefits..all he wants is *** whenever he pleases...think about it you really want to get into that?? True love is not about that...move on!
2007-03-14 13:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No screw him. plain and simple and if u keep giving it to him then your an idiot. I know its hard btu you can do it.
2007-03-14 13:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by PRiNCESS Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋