After loosing my house and land, me and my 11 year old daughter moved in with my boyfriend. Things were going great till about a month ago. He is a retired marine. He is very quite and doesn't like anyone to know his business. He has some lady friends that call. Most of them were in the marines with him or know him from there. 3 weeks ago a lady from our area called and left a message on the phone. She said she was just calling to chat. When I asked him about her he wanted to know why I asked and I said she left you a message on the phone. He didn't answer my question of who she was. Of course I snuck the phone number and went on line and got an address, and she lives not far from us. He also has her cell number in his wallet. I havn't said anything else to him since I asked who she was. He even added up how much I have cost him since I moved in. He has for the last 3 weeks - acted like he is mad and wont talk and doesn't tell me bye when he leaves or tell me he loves me. Any advice?
2007-03-14 06:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by alisonking74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop obsessing over this Honey!!!! If he has a gal friend there isn't any problem. If he starts acting different with you then you have an issue but for now, just relax and trust that he won't hurt you.
2007-03-14 07:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I feel bad that you lost your home but things will turn around for the better . The way he is acting towards you leads me to think that he doesn't want you there and then on top of it all you are snooping which is not good either .
Be careful what you go looking for you might just find it . I do not know your job sittuation but if I were you I would begin searching for a new place to live for you and your daughter where you can be more at ease . As fare as your bf strange behavior I have not a clue . Maybe he is guilty of this other woman and does not want to discuss her .
Good Luck
C
2007-03-14 14:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say is better you be honest with him and tell him what is going on, and he does not want to talk i say is better to leave him. That is the best thing you can do.
Good luck
2007-03-14 14:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is any other place you can go to with your child, move now.
The guy doesn't care about you and he thinks of you as a burden. Leave his house before he asks you to.
2007-03-14 14:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start looking for a new place to live :(
2007-03-14 14:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by a_woman_with_a_brain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new place to live, before he bring's you home an STD
2007-03-14 14:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of him... Sorry to say but it sounds like this guy is an @$$hole. Good luck to you and your kid...
2007-03-14 14:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by hollie_c_sharp64012 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋