2007-03-14 06:50:23 · 21 answers · asked by CARLY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why waste time on here asking when you could be packing.find someone worthy of you
2007-03-14 06:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How sure are you that he cheats? Do you have proof?
How does his cheating make you feel?
If you are sure he is cheating and this is making you unhappy then yes, leave. It will be difficult in the short term, but you will be happier in the long term and you will give yourself the opportunity to meet someone who will love and respect you.
Just because you are not together does not mean he can't still be a good Dad to your kids.
If you are not sure about the cheating, do a bit more investigating first. Don't always take someone's word for it, they could have a hidden agenda!!
If you know he cheats but can live with it, then that's your decision, but I think you would only be denyng yourself the opportunity for real happiness.
Good luck
2007-03-14 07:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by p0nytales 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have proof that he cheated on you? I hate to ask this, but it might be something you think he is doing, but he isn't.
What I would do is have a friend follow him and take pictures, get proof that he is cheating on you. Even if you have to have a female friend do something with him, get the proof. Then, once you have the proof, ask him one more time if he cheated on you, give him the chance to come clean, and when he doesn't, show him all the proof you have, and then leave him.
Don't use the kids to stay, you will find someone who will love you and your kids, without ever cheating on you.
2007-03-14 06:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by George P 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better and so do your children. If you are considering staying with him for the sake of the kids that's not always what works. Remember your kids will look to you to see how a woman is treated if they see you allowing yourself to be cheated on they will learn that's the way a woman is to be treated. I don't know if your kids are male or female but do you want your daughter/son growing up thinking that's right? By all means let your kids see their father I am not questioning his ability as a parent but think carefully about your decision regarding you and your partners relationship.
2007-03-14 08:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by lmryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has definately cheated on you and you know this for a fact get rid of him. Kick him out the house and screw him for as much child support as you can. Let him see the kids on your terms and start building a new life for yourself as a single mom. There are some lovely men out there and you deserve to be with one of them. Think of your sexual health too. Do yuo really want to have it off with him knowing he's been elsewhere, you don't know if he has used a condom or not and you could end up with anything. Look after your mental and physical health and dump him.
2007-03-14 07:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should leave him, he thinks he's getting away with it and that you'll always going to be there waiting for him. You deserve better than that and it's not fair on the kids to live in a stressful household. Don't let him get away with it, if you don't get out of that relationship your self esteem will hit rock bottom. Find someone who will treat you right.
2007-03-14 07:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jazzybee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you know for certain he's cheating on you (and your kids) and can get out of this relationship - do so. He'll never change so find someone who deserves you. Good luck and happiness for the future!
LizG
2007-03-14 06:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lets think stay with a cheating good for nothing waste of oxygen or go and find some one who wiil respect you as well as love you. No brainer really get out there and find your soul mate.
2007-03-14 07:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have the proof that he's cheating on you ? I'd be straight out the door, with the kids if it were me. It's obvious he loves no-one but himself, treating you and his kids like that.
2007-03-14 06:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for CERTAIN he cheats? Is he a good dad?Good provider(goes to work, supports the family)?
Can you trust him?
If answer NO, get rid of him. If YES, sort things out
2007-03-14 10:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really asking that question?? How much do you value yourself?? Of course you should leave him obviously he has no love or respect towards you. Come on you can do better than that. Good Luck!
2007-03-14 06:55:29 · answer #11 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋