Singles & Dating - 14 March 2007

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. Anyways, when I get REALLY pi$sed at him, I'll forcefully push him away from me. He NEVER EVER used to lay a hand on me or (physically) hurt me in any way. However, lately he has been pushing me back, holding me against the wall, shaking me... I asked him why he's ok with being physically aggressive with me now, and not ever before, and he said it's because I shove him when I get mad... (Mind you this guy's a registered golden gloves boxer and is twice my weight...)
What do you think about this situation? Do you think he is justified in his actions to push me, hold me down, and shake me around when we're fighting because I start it?

2007-03-14 07:42:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been seeing this guy for 18 months, i am in love with him and care about him deeply. i believe he loves me too, however, i am struggling with the fact that his first relationship was with his brother's wife. his brother ended up divorcing this woman and my bf had a lengthy relationship and 2 children with her, even though she continued to run around and cheat on him. he even had a paternity test done on the 2nd child to see if it was his. we get along well, like doing the same things and there are alot of positives to our relationship. However, he sometimes makes comments about our relationship and incinuates that because of something he thinks i did before we were a couple, he won't be able to commit in the long run. then i think, wow, look what they did and i have a hard time with it.

2007-03-14 07:41:30 · 10 answers · asked by labsims 1

this new guy in my life has chosen one of his friend to severly control me, and anytime he is not there or is to proud to show interest his friend will come around, acting kind of normal but is obviously keeping an eye on me, once i caught him talking on his cellphon with me guy but as hesaw me soon he stopped the conversation!! why does a mature boy 24 chose his friend to control me when he is not around??? why?

2007-03-14 07:41:26 · 8 answers · asked by Linda 2

I have a fiance who is an over-the-top romantic and always makes everything absolutly amazing, better than in a movie...I dont know how I found him. Basically, I need some good ideas. Right now is a time where he wont be expecting anything so I want to surprise him with a romantic date or something like that. I am low on cash but it doesnt need to be too cheap or free.

He has all of the picnics, candle lit dinner and all of that down pat, I need something that he wouldnt expect.

PLEASE HELP!
Thanks everyone! :)

2007-03-14 07:40:51 · 3 answers · asked by M. M 4

Ok, so I was dumped by my ex. over a month ago. And I'm not sure I'm ready to date again, but i kinda like this guy...well actually its just old feelings rising. I havent actually seen and talked to him in about 5 yrs, Now I live down the street from him...he doesnt have a girl...but should i try to date him, at least get to know him again. After the bad break-up with my ex?(if you want to know what the ex did, read my other questions)

2007-03-14 07:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by Jasmin C 1

2007-03-14 07:40:09 · 2 answers · asked by ramsey o 1

This guy I'm dating doesnt like being called a freak even though he is haha whats another way of calling him a freak?

2007-03-14 07:39:24 · 25 answers · asked by TheLight 5

he broke my heart but i still want him.what must i do????????

2007-03-14 07:39:21 · 8 answers · asked by babypink 1

2007-03-14 07:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by hated 1

if anyone does like strong, fast, hot WR/SSs give me your # please

2007-03-14 07:37:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This Question is for ladies only Please . Ladies how do you feel about a man who wears pantyhose . Thousands of totally straight men do this , most of them never tell anyone even their wifes . Do you think it is ok , what if Nononsense put his or her pantyhose right on the package , would it be ok then ? > some men do it for the health reasons and some do it just because they like the feeling of it . They do make a mens brand of pantyhose however most men would rather have the womens style and brand anyway . You would be suprized at how well nononsense pantyhose fit the mans body , ladies how do you feel ? would you tell family and freinds if your man wanted to wear them ? woud you keep it a secret ? would you like it and buy them for him ,? ladies please be honest ! thank you

2007-03-14 07:37:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I have moved on, my ex always comes back into my life. It is like he has a 6th sense about it.

2007-03-14 07:36:08 · 22 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

I got dumpt pleas answer.

2007-03-14 07:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by Raul M 1

2007-03-14 07:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

a little while ago i asked a question about what i should do about my boyfiend wanting to join the army. Truth is i love him with all my heart and dont want to lose him, but his reason for joining is stupid his reason is to make my mom shut up about him, The real problem is that i lost someone that i cared about it the army and i dont want to lose him to. Im glad he wants to do this but i dont want him to go on the reason he has for going. I love him and dont want to lose him. what should i do about this?

2007-03-14 07:32:29 · 21 answers · asked by vixen63_babygirl 2

I made a question here of this sort and some women had had the ousadia to answer that, the men for they do not pass of cachorros.As I can show e, to prove in contrast of this. Despite the unconsciousness of the generalized world still applied man exists and affectionate, she is what I am proving to be, all this brutality of the world did not affect me the romantico and affectionate side to treat the woman.

2007-03-14 07:31:30 · 7 answers · asked by Falcão da Justiça 4

i'm talking abt guys who are 17/18/19.
thanks.

2007-03-14 07:30:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 07:29:50 · 24 answers · asked by stop it 1

okay, this is the first time i have gotten this from a female, i went to a bank, and saw this girl and i was definitely feeling her, and when i asked her for her number, she gave me her business card, and she told me to email her ( no personal number on a business card ), what does this mean? do i have a chance, normally i always get numbers, if i email her, what do i write. I am still a rookie in the game.

2007-03-14 07:28:44 · 6 answers · asked by jdm_civic_si 1

Do white males have trouble dating/marrying black females?

I'm a black female, but am very interested in white males. However, it seems as if they are "undercover" about trying to date me. I mean they make good money, already established...what is up with that?

2007-03-14 07:28:35 · 16 answers · asked by Tweety 2

except for one man, who alternately acts flirty and looks at her as if he's afraid of her, what does that mean?

2007-03-14 07:28:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

2007-03-14 07:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well while having sex, i like to push in deep along the bottom wall,(while your in missionary) and pull back up keeping more pressure on the front of the wall...good? any other suggestions? hehe

2007-03-14 07:26:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 07:25:48 · 9 answers · asked by joe_resner 1

is it that hard to find girls here ?

2007-03-14 07:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by hash78 1

There is this girl and we used to really like each other she would you know look deep in my eyes focus on me talk to me happily and stare at me. She was supremely friendly and seemed like she was more than flirting. She has since become really quiet look away from me look down. She used to sit next to me now she sits further away in class. And now she seems to be acting all flirty and s*** with the only other guy in our class. What the f*** is going on and does she still like me? Im in 8th grade. She still asks me sortv lame questions about homework but I just aint sure anymore. What do I do?

2007-03-14 07:21:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf just sent me an email telling that heis trying to save his job,wat shud i write to make him feel better and to let him know that i m there, (ours is a long distance relationship)

2007-03-14 07:21:31 · 17 answers · asked by hmmm 3

i read in a book, men love to be priased and told that they are perfect enough, or just the best on the planet, and i kind of try to do that with the guy i'am very much fond of well i guess i try to boost his confidence but i dont know if he really buys what i say, i mean do men need this admiration? and if you keep on flattering them, would it always lead to good things?

2007-03-14 07:21:18 · 17 answers · asked by Linda 2

I have problem with fiancee about looking at girl. Wherever we go, he is looking at girl. We argued many times and talked but didn't work. We had same problem yesterday and he was like "you have low self-esteem and I was just looking, I didn't do anything wrong" .
I am worried about future. If we argue about this, we will not be happy. Do you guy think I am so sensetive?

2007-03-14 07:18:33 · 20 answers · asked by BBABO 1

Effects of having sex in a teenage relationship?
a guyfriend of mine had sex with his girlfriend. 3 weeks later he is talking about trying to have sex with a cheerleader. does he still like his girlfriend. does having sex make him bored of her?

2007-03-14 07:18:31 · 10 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1