were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else
2007-03-14 07:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i recently went lunch with this girl, and cause shes always stressed, i gave her a little gift to help relieve it, this also shows i care for her right?.....and that same day when she left, we were about to hug, then this wierd feeling came and it was really awkward, and the hug turned into more of a pat, and we both felt wierd.whats all this mean?...should i see what she does now or keep asking her to do things with me?
2007-03-14 07:27:27 · update #1
Tell her straight out the way you feel and see where it goes from there.
2007-03-14 07:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww so cute lol. I would say yes keep going for it. It seems like she likes you or at least spending time with you. If you guys are friends then it MAY feel a little akward for a while because your taking your friendship to a whole nother level. Are you the kind of guy to just tell her you like her? Or are you kinda shy about that? Why don't you try holding her hand or touching her more not "touchy touchy" but like playing with her hair, giving her a massage "friendly" massage, get her some more gifts, she should know something is up from all these. If your straight forward, say something like "Do you consider us friends or more?"
Do you have another girl friend, that you may ask her to ask your "crush/love" if she likes you. Then you can be sure and then YOU can tell her that you like her, since you already know she does. It's so cute...I think she does though she is giving some signals there...but there is such thing as brotherly love. Good luck...!
2007-03-14 07:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girlfriend has other issues. One being self esteem and the other a need for control. In the beginning of your story, she sounds like a stalker. her need for cuddling is age appropriate and I always encourage it at any age. waking up and wanting to do it all over again says to me....are you still there??? do you still want me??? prove it! When she feels that you may be slipping away, she tries to win you back w/gifts or attention. Be careful, that you do not allow her to control your entire life. Pillow fighting is cute at seventeen, but does she get ruff? If so, run like hell! because chances are, she has serious control issues. she should not be calling your family members nor trying to dominate your entire life. That is not a healthy relationship. She may expect you to make her happy and will take it out on you for her unhappiness as well.
2007-03-14 07:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by lorianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww u both want 2 b with each other but are 2 afraid 2 tell each other. you need to b a man an let her know how u feel before she finds some one else. if u look at she already has by the things she does around you.
2007-03-14 07:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by mztonyadetroit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to put it out there and let her know how you feel about her. Based on the information you gave it does sound like she has the hots for you. I think she's just trying to get a feel on what you think about her or what you wanna do. Remember no one wants to be rejected.
2007-03-14 07:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is hot and cold with you, maybe she is not sure how she feels... just ask her, or rather tell you how you feel and see what she says.
I must admit she sounds like an attention whore - and might just be looking to get some attention from you, does she act this strange around other people too?
Oh well if she rejects you just tell everyone she is bipolar and crazy :)
2007-03-14 07:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you. And since you like her there would be awkwardness. I would take her to lunch or for a walk in the park (weather permitting) and tell her how you feel. The only thing that you can do now is to talk with her about it. Ask her, her feelings for you. Sounds to me, she likes you.
2007-03-14 07:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty obvious she likes you and you like her so you should tell her. That way there won't be all those awkward moments because both of you will be on the same page!
2007-03-14 07:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and just ask her if she likes you, because you like her. Get it out there. Don't try to read signals, I think it is too hard to figure if someone likes you or not. Just ask. Good luck!!! : )
2007-03-14 07:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by ambey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it could either be that she likes you or that she simply considers you a good friend. You should try flirting a little, joking around and see how she takes it...
2007-03-14 07:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋