this new guy in my life has chosen one of his friend to severly control me, and anytime he is not there or is to proud to show interest his friend will come around, acting kind of normal but is obviously keeping an eye on me, once i caught him talking on his cellphon with me guy but as hesaw me soon he stopped the conversation!! why does a mature boy 24 chose his friend to control me when he is not around??? why?
2007-03-14 07:41:26 · 8 answers · asked by Linda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is my guy kind of jelouse i might be talking to other people? boys help
2007-03-14 19:34:54 · update #1
If you really are for sure this is whats going on, that is NOT cool at all. Your friend either trusts you or he doesn't. That is not cool to follow someone around...like he is babysitting you.
I would make sure this is the case and I will leave my boyfriend, because it is hard for people to change...and your life circle will get smaller and smaller and smaller...
2007-03-22 05:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a little weird to me. How much of a relationship or commitment do you and this guy have? It sounded as though you had just met him and there was nothing agreed to about going out with other people. Let this guy know you don't want a watch dog regardless of what your relationship is. If he doesn't feel he can trust you then let him go find somebody he can trust.
2007-03-22 12:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of those guys have issues. I would drop them both. If your guy don't trust you you don't need him.You want a guy to say he's interested all the time. Not some of the time and for the other to control you like you say. No way. He ain't no one to you. you aren't dating him. He needs to back off. Or you need to take your self out of the situation
2007-03-22 11:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by steppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like what my friends use to do to their g/f back in my country... I would suggest you make sure you brake up with this guy... If someone that age needs to control his g/f this way he has some issues ...
2007-03-22 14:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by ermal_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch em'..... FAST.
There are so many other worthwhile things you could be doing than waisting your energy on these loosers.
Anyone who tries to control others is weak and insucure. They control others in order to feel superior.
To them you are no more important than a dog.
Oh they will tout your importance, but these are just lies to further control you.
2007-03-22 12:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by w0lfxvii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the "friend" to the kerb. Threaten to call the cops on him.
Tell your new guy that his creepy "friend" is stalking you, and you are ready to call the cops about it.
2007-03-16 03:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like he maybe insecure about his self
2007-03-22 13:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by ravenhk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he's jealous or
maybe your new guy is gay or bi an is cheating on you with his friend..........
2007-03-22 14:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by mickey999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋