I have been dating a man for 9 mos, we're both in our 30's. He has been the sweetest, kindest man I've ever met. Always doing thoughtful things, likes my kids, he'd send text messages throughout the day, we'd talk on the phone every night for at least an hour. We live an hour apart, but he spent every weekend here. He said he loved me all the time, even talked about marriage in the future. In all this time, we never argued, until last week, and it was over something trivial.
Now, he's not calling, only texts if I do first, and isn't answering my calls. His last message said, "I care about you a lot, I just need a break."
Is this just a way of breaking up without actually saying it? Or is this a way of dealing with his anger of the argument? I don't understand how someone's feelings and attitude could change so suddenly. And before you say just ask him, I have. I just keep getting the I need a break answer.
2007-03-08
15:46:18
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