this guy i know is off on weekends but he always wants to see me during the week. so i stopped him from coming over. why would he only want to see me only during the week. its been going on like this for a while. so i got tired of being alone on the weekends. so now i spend it with someone else. so what was he trying to do, in your opinon?
2007-03-08 15:44:36 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh, he's totally dating "someone" on the weekends. dump him. that is the oldest trick in the book.
2007-03-08 15:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by LuckyMo! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate questions that I really like but the asker doesn't give the details I need. This is what I need to know. Did he come to see you just after he got off work and for how long? If yes then he was probably living with a g/f or a wife. When he got home he gave his wife the "I had to work late" excuse. On weekends he gave you the "I can't make it over because of" excuse. You should have picked up on this before you allowed him to come over to your house in the first place. Did you go out on dates? Or was it just a come over and let's chill type of thing? Now me being a man if a women allows me to come over to her house before 4 or 5 solid dates then my mind is on getting some action. Next time be wise and use your intuition. Good luck.
2007-03-09 00:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because work is his alibi.Wife cannot say that he cheating this way..Sounds like my husband I know that he was seeing someone,somehow,someway and threw work was my only solution .cause he works outside around lots of women with children so yes it is possible that your guy is married or have a live in girlfriend if he only sees you between 8to 5 mon-friday.see if you can't get your new guy to spend time with you for the complete 7 day week.
2007-03-09 07:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's soooooo married. If he was single, he'd have no problem seeing you on the weekends.
A married man can see you during the week and tell his wife he's working late. But on the weekends....it's harder to make up an excuse.
2007-03-09 00:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering too, unless he got a job on weekend. But still no one work for 24 hours day on weekend.
2007-03-08 23:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lilian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he either had a wife or girlfriend. usually they use work as a cover for cheating, if his significant other knows he is off on the weekends then going anywhere or not spending time with them would blow his whole down low thing.
2007-03-08 23:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by allkoei 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in the first place, did you discuss with him reason why he doesnt see you on weekends? is it valid reason? cant he be flexible enough? well if you are not satisfied with his answers, then be open to him to tell your feelings about it. if he adjusts and addresses your needs, then his feelings are real. otherwise, time to think more about this relationship. It's always healthy in a relationship to have open communication so be open, okay?
2007-03-08 23:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by meh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't want to give you an answer then he wants to see other girls, most likely. Without knowing his schedule, what his occupation is, family obligations, I'd just assume he was up to no good.
2007-03-08 23:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by grawby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possiblky he is cheating on you that is my opinion
2007-03-08 23:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probly married.
2007-03-08 23:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋