Singles & Dating - 8 March 2007

I was just reading someone else's question about guys who are slackers—seems most women hate that. I've always pretty much taken that for granted, but never really thought to wonder what the reason was. Is it really that big of a turn off/on?

2007-03-08 17:11:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girl I am with says her ex used to call her 3-4 times a day and every night. Honestly, I like talking with her but i got a life. Is she just too needy or am i just clueless?

2007-03-08 17:11:06 · 4 answers · asked by KID87 1

when a guy that used to like you (but denies having feelings for you now) tells you that your ex is a jerk and that you shouldnt bother talking with him...what is he thinking?

ps. the ex in this situation is the guys best friend...

pss. and what would you think if a friend of both of them recently told you that they (your ex and the guy) both talk about you at school?

1. does that the guy likes you still
2. if the guy knows you like him, will he eventually make a move?
3. any other suggestions?

2007-03-08 17:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

a girl and i were talking about being together but bc i'm moving away, she ended up dating someone else. so last night i was walking by her in the common of our college and she was with her gf (we are all bi/gay).... so i just walked a good distance to the side to let her go by. was this the right thing to do? she e-mailed me about it and asked why i did that

2007-03-08 17:09:10 · 6 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1

Actually I think I already know the answer: They already have boyfriends.

2007-03-08 17:08:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i used to do four times in month - is this any harm to my health- especially after marriage- suggest ?

2007-03-08 17:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by Ajay . k 1

2007-03-08 17:07:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its as if they have this care-free attitude, 'fine, if you dont want me, whatever'. Some one told me that.

2007-03-08 17:07:12 · 4 answers · asked by Miss D 1

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year. We're both in high school..and he's the first guy to ever make me so happy..we've been fighting alot lately though and he sometimes he seems like he doesnt want to kiss or hug, and when we do, he kisses me very quickly and then pulls away..whats going on? Am I doing something wrong?

2007-03-08 17:07:11 · 5 answers · asked by Pixie 2

Well my g/f thought I was cheating because she caught me and my ex in my room talking. However we did not do anything and we were just talking. She thought I slept with her, but I did not.

Now she wont even talk to me. I don't know how to get her to talk to me anymore and discuss this. Even after I told her what happened (my ex was depressed cuz she just broke up w/ her current b/f) she wouldn't believe me. Now she isn't responding to my calls, emails, or anything. I can understand her perspective because I would think the same. For a time I txt'd her like crazy, but now I have let off because I know it is excessive. She's not responding to anything.

I don't know what to do and I would like to fix us.

2007-03-08 17:07:05 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 2

2007-03-08 17:06:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met her in high school. she knew i liked her but i couldnt tell if she liked me the way i did her. i know we got along really well. shes like my sis i never had i told her and visa versa. now in college two years later. im still a virgin lol. and she wonders y. the second time i met her she gave me her number and soon after she invited me to her house for the 1st time. i told her to leave her pajamas on she said no but she changed her mind and left them on. it seemed like she wanted to b alone with me but her little cuz was in the way. and she didnt want her mom and grand ma to c me cuz they would embarras her. later she said "dont u have something to tell me". i told her no but i really wanted to tell her just not yet. she was tickleing me a bit and visa versa. another day she asked me to go work out with her and i did. i accidently went into the girls locker and saw her changing. yea she was shy and when i saw her soon after she gave a little smile. we are going 2 go out more to.

2007-03-08 17:04:53 · 3 answers · asked by art w 1

I broke up with my bf months ago because he pretty much treated me like crap, I dont wanna go into details. Lately I've been trying to be friends with him because I dont want to lose contact with him but everytime we talk it just feels really awkward, and all he talks about is negative things in his life. He told me that he doesnt want me anymore but everytime we talk its like he wants me to feel sorry for him. So whenever he says something I just reply with one word answers. The other night he asked me "are you ever gonna stop hating me?" and i told him that i dont hate him but its hard for me to talk to him because i was in love with him and he hurt me a lot. after i said that, his only response was "wow". and then we didnt talk anymore after that. should i keep trying to be friends? what should i say to him? should i even say anything at all? should i just forget him? im so confused. when i try to forget him, i miss him, when i try to be friends, he hurts me. what do i do?

2007-03-08 17:03:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have met this guy and i think he is just being friends with me i want him to be my boyfriend. how can i do that

2007-03-08 17:02:46 · 14 answers · asked by dandi 1

Isn't it true that the older you are, the better you know not only your body but also what your partner would want also?

Granted, that all the parts are still working that is...

2007-03-08 17:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 17:00:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boss that at times is the best. AT other times he is ALWAYS right and very very opionative...he will come at you with a defensive question with blame already on his tounge and you cant say much you just have to try and find what ever it is he is looking for and go on and keep your mouth shut. But once you get to the point what your looking for isnt there and what he said he told you you know for a fact he did not, or what he says he gave you, you know with out question he did not, what and how do you handle someone like that. He owns the company i have worked for him for the last 12 years....he is getting worse DAILY! please help

2007-03-08 16:58:37 · 11 answers · asked by Keli 3

2007-03-08 16:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Shakespeare, William 4

okay so theres this one guy that i have like 4ever. hes one of those cocky, confident, mysterious guys and i find it really hard 2 get close 2 him b/c he doesn't ever seem 2 let ne1 in. One night when i was talking 2 him on msn he finally opened up 2 me about his life and y he acts the way he does and stuff and we talked pretty much all night but ever since then he completely stopped talking 2 me and stuff. I ran into him once and he acted all shy and weird. ne ways i dont get it at all so some1 plz help!

2007-03-08 16:57:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 16:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I am with my "man" he often do thingsthat make me a little uncomfortable. He loves my body- (thats good) but then he would do something that make me be like OOk. I am fine about him kissing my a** it kind of reinforces that he like/love me, he often smells me down there, but when he gets to the point where he is smelling my a**- that throws me off. I mean he compliments me on not having a smell and taking care of myself but come on smelling my a**- that is over the top. I feel conscious with him like I can't slip up one day because he would be there to smell me( in case you haven't already known, he loves smelling me and says I am the first and only female he been with that dont stink), oh yeah he used to howl when he smell me. I just dont know is this normal? Because it feel a little weird. What should I do??

2007-03-08 16:56:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

OKAY WELL I LIKED THIS GUY FOR ABOUT A YEAR .THE WHOLE TIME EVEYONE TOLD ME THAT HE LOVED ME . HE NEVER SAID ANYTHING TO ME RELLY .I JUST EVENTULY GOT USTO THE IDEA HE DIDEN'T LOVE ME . AND THEN I MET ANOTHER GUY I LOVE ALOT AND WE HAD FEELING FOR EACH OTHER . HE LOVES ME ALOT HE SAID HE WOULD NEVER DO ANYTHING TO HURT ME . HE DOES ALLOT OF THINGS FOR ME . THEN THE GUY FROM BACK THEN COMES UP AND ASKED ME OUT AND I STILL KIND OF LIKE HIM . HE SAID THAT HE WAS ALLWAYS SHY SO HE NEVER SAID ANYTHING BECUSE HE THOUGHT I WOULD NEVER LIKE HIM AND THATS WHY HE DIDEN'T ASK ME OUT BACK THEN BUT HE ASKED ME OUT NOW BUT I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND I LOVE BOTH OF THEM WHO DO I STAY WITH ? SOMEONE PLZ HELP ME .

2007-03-08 16:54:50 · 8 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3

Last night my aunt went home.. She got mad after the things she found out.. And she said i am not her respondsibilty.. Because i am adopted.. Since my stepmother died ive been living miserably because they treat me like a punch bag that anytime they can punch me,... I dont know what to do.. I never complained about this because im afraid of them.. I have another problem that bothers me a lot, I dont have birth certificate.. My real uncle wrote to me last year to find out if im okey.. I wrote to him and ask about my birth certificate.. He said their doing their best to work about this but until now ive got nothing.. i lost my will to continue.. I have friends but some of them i didnt tell about my life.. For too long i suffered without a mother and a father to guide me.. only those foster parents.. They said im lucky enough that there are some people who have a kind heart.. But they never understand what im going through... I tried to hide this because i dont intend to report this.help!

2007-03-08 16:53:06 · 4 answers · asked by rhean s 2

i love my girlfriend,so much. even if she had some other guy baby.i told her i would never leave her.i love her with all my heart.i dated another girl for 22 years.and love her the same way.but she died.i take very good care of my lady.

2007-03-08 16:52:44 · 5 answers · asked by romance 2

does love change as you get older?

2007-03-08 16:50:02 · 13 answers · asked by Jacklyn S 1

i always hear girls saying "y do guyz always talk sex are they obsessed" i think girls do the same thing in their lil "girl talks" with each other but yea just wanted to know wat y'all think

2007-03-08 16:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend and i are 14...We are both haveing sex...People call us stupid,We only do it because we love are boyfriends...And they love us,Or im sure they would of left us after we had sex with them,So meny older girls want to date them,But they pick us,Even tho they had chances with they other girls,We are very mature and do not look are age,I don't see why young girls can't have sex...I only see if they get pregnant you have a problem,Well my friend is pregnant,And she is pretty dumb because she did not use condoms,When she had sex that is,Me im on birth control/I tell my boyfriend to use condoms...I have sex because i know what its really about its not just like oh i had sex because my boyfriend wanted to...You do it cause your inlove,And some teens at a young age actually know what love is,Some that is...And yet others go around saying ew thats gross your gross,Well i guess everyone who has sex is gross! i hate when people say **** when they don't know me and my boyfriend.

2007-03-08 16:49:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 16:48:55 · 8 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4

i met an incredible girl who i think i kinda fell in love with. but the situation was so complicated, can't go into it now.... to try to simplify i think she might have been the one for me but i was entering depression and pushed her away by saying that i didn't want to talk to her anymore, i e-mailed her back to say i was sorry and it wasn't her fault and i knew there was "no point" in us being in touch but i wanted her to know that. but she never replied back. she once had feelings for me, i think, but now i think she either hates me and thinnk i'm a stalker and loser or i hurt her... how can i live the rest of my life wondering about her?

2007-03-08 16:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf broke up with me about 2 months ago because she said I was neglecting her and she didnt like that I yelled at her when we had a disagreement. I admit I ignored her a bit and maybe yelled but I didn't think that I did something so bad that she had to break up with me. She hurt me a lot when we broke up and afterwards when she wanted to get back together I told her I didnt want to cuz i didnt wanna get hurt again. now we are somewhat friends, at least I try to be friends with her but everytime I talk to her i feel a lot of animosity, it's like she hates me. The other night I asked her if she hated me and she said that she doesnt hate me but she cant bring herself to talk to me because it hurts her too much to talk to me. Apparently I hurt her a lot. I don't know if I should keep trying to be friends or if I should just forget about her? Suggestions?

2007-03-08 16:48:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous