Well my g/f thought I was cheating because she caught me and my ex in my room talking. However we did not do anything and we were just talking. She thought I slept with her, but I did not.
Now she wont even talk to me. I don't know how to get her to talk to me anymore and discuss this. Even after I told her what happened (my ex was depressed cuz she just broke up w/ her current b/f) she wouldn't believe me. Now she isn't responding to my calls, emails, or anything. I can understand her perspective because I would think the same. For a time I txt'd her like crazy, but now I have let off because I know it is excessive. She's not responding to anything.
I don't know what to do and I would like to fix us.
2007-03-08 17:07:05 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no relationship with such little trust can be truly salvaged. if she thinks this now, you're going to wind up worried every day thinking that she's thinking you're cheating if you were to get back together. you need to give her some space and just call her in a few days, tell her when she's rational and hope for the best. if it's meant to be fixed, it won't be hard to do.
2007-03-08 17:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by rubydoobydoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bedroom should never be a place where you intertain friends. It is not your place to comfort an old girlfriend. She should go to girlfriends or unattached male friends. She knows just how to get to you, and how to play on your senses. She misses having a relationship and a b/f. You have no business in this area. Be the person that your new girl can trust. Go to her and apologize and tell her what you told us. She may not be an overly jealous person, just hurt that you would share a bedroom with another girl, and for what purpose with someone who needs comforting? Next time old g/f might need a hug, what then? Your new girl is right, it is she that deserves the attention you are giving to another. Admit your innocent mistake and listen to the feelings of your girl, she understands other women better than you do.
2007-03-09 01:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't persue her to much, all you will do is push her away.
If she doesn't trust you, she never will and it may be best to get out of the situation, from what you are saying it doesn't seem like there is very good communication (which is a key to relationships).
This is just my short insight, please take it as an opinion and best of luck!
2007-03-09 01:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is let her know that nothing happen, unless you
have given her a reason to think that something did go on.
just give her time, she will come around. just give her the
space. then talk to her again. it will work it self out.
2007-03-09 01:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the Shaggy music vid and learn the line: "wasn't me."
Got that?
2007-03-09 01:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by randy_beastwood 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
let me guess, you and your girlfriend are teenagers? just move on. relationships at that age are all temporary and learning experiences.
2007-03-09 12:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by surfrchik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my experience, tell her to smarten up and if she doesn't.......
2007-03-09 02:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋