i met an incredible girl who i think i kinda fell in love with. but the situation was so complicated, can't go into it now.... to try to simplify i think she might have been the one for me but i was entering depression and pushed her away by saying that i didn't want to talk to her anymore, i e-mailed her back to say i was sorry and it wasn't her fault and i knew there was "no point" in us being in touch but i wanted her to know that. but she never replied back. she once had feelings for me, i think, but now i think she either hates me and thinnk i'm a stalker and loser or i hurt her... how can i live the rest of my life wondering about her?
2007-03-08 16:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You think you love her and you EMAILED her and apology??
WHAT WERE YOU THINKING!!!
(this IS answers here and im trying to be honest... Im all about getting the "best answer" brother, but that is where you goofed it..)
Tell her in person...
2007-03-08 16:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Peck C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think i kinda fell in love .........
think?.that means you are not sure of yourself.
since you were in depression, you pushed her away and it might have hurt her but you have send her apology
Listen if she had feelings for you, then she would have understand after you send her an apology.
Do me a favour: try and apologize personally and say I like to be your friend. Dont rush into things.
Tell her a true friend like you is necessary for me because when i was depressed you were there for me but i did not realise till I open my eyes. Please forgive me if you can, i like to be your friend.
Thats all then if she wants to forgive or not, its up to her and dont push.....let her take her time.if you push she will avoid you more
2007-03-08 18:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by reenalalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just really, really mad at you. and the last thing she wanted to hear was you acknowledging her fears that there is no hope for you both (you did that, you know). so i would advice you to keep contacting her asking for another chance and do it till you get a reply from her telling you, yes or no. either way, you are correct, you cant live the rest of your life wondering.
2007-03-08 16:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Miss D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings will change, so don't have to stick to thinking that she will still have feelings. You will meet new people, but I think it is good to be more careful about the impact on others when you say something. A lesson just have to be learnt...
2007-03-08 16:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by lovefashion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't assume what she's thinking. She might not be mad. She may have never had feelings for you in the first place. If she's the one for you...she'll find you again.
2007-03-08 16:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on . you blew it. you need to get your mental stability together before you try maintaining a relationship. if your not happy and secure you won't be any good to anyone else. find a good psychiatrist and get on some meds and get therapy.
2007-03-08 16:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to bed and get up each day.
2007-03-08 16:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you will be fine and get over it..
Time heals all wounds...
2007-03-08 16:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry man...but love hurts!!!!!!!!! that how it is.....just try to move on ok good luck!
2007-03-08 16:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Yenny** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋