What should i do now? I sense that they dont want me anymore.. Please help me!!!!?

Question

Last night my aunt went home.. She got mad after the things she found out.. And she said i am not her respondsibilty.. Because i am adopted.. Since my stepmother died ive been living miserably because they treat me like a punch bag that anytime they can punch me,... I dont know what to do.. I never complained about this because im afraid of them.. I have another problem that bothers me a lot, I dont have birth certificate.. My real uncle wrote to me last year to find out if im okey.. I wrote to him and ask about my birth certificate.. He said their doing their best to work about this but until now ive got nothing.. i lost my will to continue.. I have friends but some of them i didnt tell about my life.. For too long i suffered without a mother and a father to guide me.. only those foster parents.. They said im lucky enough that there are some people who have a kind heart.. But they never understand what im going through... I tried to hide this because i dont intend to report this.help!

Please help me.. tell me what the best i can do... I want to say sorry to them but i dont know where to start... I tell my life story because i want others opinion not only to my friends but to all.. Everytime that i am hurt with unpleasant words i cried i always cry.. I never complained abouit this although i have the right but i dont have the guts to do so.. Tell me what to do? should i go back to my realparents? Or face them?I want to live to continue but all my happiness were taken away from me.. I have a boyfriend i dont how to tell this to them because im afraid that they will take him away from me i love him so much.. He always there to comfort me when i have a big problem.. The only problem is he's too far from me...Thanks for your time i hope that you will give me a better opinion.. Thanks

Answer 1

If you are under the age of majority, report your problem to an child-speciality agency like "Kids Help Phone". They are more experienced with such problems and can offer great solutions. Some agencies even take the initiative to act behalf of yourself and find out the best possible resolution for your case.

If you are over the age of majority, then see if you can move out of such a negative envrionment. Again, there are many community groups which you can talk to - United Way and Salvation Army would be the international one but there are tons of local community centres in each city. Your case, as every other one, is unique and thus deserves special attention, and these community groups will give you special attention.

Two things you should keep in mind, no matter how old you are. One, there's always someone who can help you when you need it, so do not feel alone or hopeless. Just make sure that you do not get put down by others telling you "oh you are already lucky compared to ******" but go out there and take the initiative to seek support.

Second, always believe in yourself. I work with an At Risk Youth group in my area and always tell them that if they don't believe in themselves, then no one else will neither. Everyone runs into hardtimes, but with strong willpower and determination you will be able to leap over and barrier in your life. Everyone has the capablility to succeed, and I truly hope that you set a life goal for yourself and do whatever you need to persue it.


I hope that you can work out the issues and find help as soon as possible. Take care.

Answer 2

You need to get vout of this situation now .You are not a punching bag you are a child of God they were lucky to have you as foster child please talk to your teacher or social worker you dont have to have a birth certificate for someone to come rescue you.Please dont give up .If you escaped this sitiution you would feel diffrent.What are your dreams ?What do you like to do?art,writing,working on cars ,cooking,sports you can make a future for yourself.If you have access to a library read a boy called IT by Dave Peltzer.He was in a very bad home and escaped.There are good people out the world .people that would love you.I will pray for you Honey just please get help.Runaway if you have to then get help go to the police and tell them they beat you all the time ask to speak to a casa volunteer or a child advocate.Ask if you can go to a shelter.dont worry about taking all your stuff just grab a few small things and go.Take a good coat.take care child never give up.

Answer 3

well i dunno if this would exactly help but try to runaway not permanently tho but maybe after your missing completely for about 5 days or so maybe theyll open up theyre eyes and if u go to juvie tell them u would like to find ur real family if your foster parents dont waek up.......
running away is hard especially if u got skool but u will get counseling and and feel appreciated tht some one cares

the worst case scenario u go to juvie and get ur a$$ whooped.....
But on the bright side this could be a big step in ur life.....

Trust me i dont have much of a family left and sometimes running away is the only thig tht helps

but w/e u do dont join a gang cuz if u do
well first u have to get violated meaning the beat the $hit out u
and second they will be ur only family and if u grow close to sum1 in tht gang and they get shot ur even worse off

but getting off topic so i hope i helped........

Answer 4

u need to talk to a concellor or a person who u truly trust. U should tell your friends on how bad your life is. be more open and try to seek out. No one deserves to be treated like that. If u fell this bad then there doing something wrong. go tell someone. I really hope u feel better soon. good luck