My gf broke up with me about 2 months ago because she said I was neglecting her and she didnt like that I yelled at her when we had a disagreement. I admit I ignored her a bit and maybe yelled but I didn't think that I did something so bad that she had to break up with me. She hurt me a lot when we broke up and afterwards when she wanted to get back together I told her I didnt want to cuz i didnt wanna get hurt again. now we are somewhat friends, at least I try to be friends with her but everytime I talk to her i feel a lot of animosity, it's like she hates me. The other night I asked her if she hated me and she said that she doesnt hate me but she cant bring herself to talk to me because it hurts her too much to talk to me. Apparently I hurt her a lot. I don't know if I should keep trying to be friends or if I should just forget about her? Suggestions?
2007-03-08 16:48:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sound like both of you have hurt each other by your actions.
so take the time to find out how you can be friends.it may
happen , or not but that the reason that you are ex. so just
keep thing simple.
2007-03-08 16:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing...dont go back with her cuz she will do this again..secondly, forget her..ex bf and ex gf cant be friends cuz its never works that way i tried before and its WEIRD!!! cuz u were with that person before, and its just weird dont hurt yourself ok good luck bye
2007-03-09 00:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Yenny** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she needs time to process your 'new' situation!
It's not easy to be friends with our ex .... specially if the broke up was hurtful.
Good luck!!!
2007-03-09 00:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by kim78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on if you think you doesnt like her anymore
2007-03-09 00:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋